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April 26, 2025
Elk Grove, CA
#HARP2025

Harsangeet & Alexander: Our WeddingHarsangeet & Alexander: Our Wedding

FAQsFAQs

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What should I wear to the wedding?What should I wear to the wedding?

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We recommend semi-formal or business attire. Maxi dresses, long skirts, or dressy pants paired with a modest blouse or top are great options. Dress shirts with trousers or suits are ideal. We also welcome anyone to wear traditional cultural attire (salwar kameez, lengha, anarkali, etc.) Please avoid shorts or overly casual attire. Everyone will need to cover their heads inside the temple (head coverings will be provided, or you can bring a scarf). Shoes are removed before entering the ceremony hall. There will be designated areas for shoe storage.

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Do I need to cover my head?Do I need to cover my head?

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Yes, head coverings are required as a sign of respect in the Sikh temple. We will provide headscarves for all guests, but you may also bring your own scarf as well.

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How long is the ceremony?How long is the ceremony?

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The ceremony (Anand Karaj) typically lasts about 1 to 2 hours. We’ll provide tea and snacks beforehand and lunch afterward to keep you refreshed.

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Will there be seating arrangements?Will there be seating arrangements?

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There isn’t a formal seating arrangement, but guests will typically sit on the floor during the ceremony. For those who need extra support, benches are available along the walls for seating.

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Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?Can I take photos or videos during the ceremony?

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Yes! Photos and videos are welcome. Please look for the QR code the day of to easily upload and share your moments with us.

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Will there be food?Will there be food?

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Yes! Tea and snacks are often offered before the ceremony, and a vegetarian lunch, known as langar, is served afterward. It’s part of the Sikh tradition of hospitality and equality.

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What about gifts?What about gifts?

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Gifts are not expected during the ceremony, but if you wish to give something, monetary gifts (shagun) in envelopes are common in Sikh culture.

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Can I participate if I’m not Sikh?Can I participate if I’m not Sikh?

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Absolutely! Sikh weddings are welcoming to people of all backgrounds. Simply follow the customs, such as covering your head and removing your shoes, as a sign of respect.

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Is there anything I shouldn’t bring or do?Is there anything I shouldn’t bring or do?

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Please refrain from bringing alcohol, tobacco, or non-vegetarian food into the Gurdwara, as these items are prohibited.