FAQsFAQs

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What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP no later than April 4th. We must give our final numbers to our venue and caterers in a timely manner therefore if you have not submitted your RSVP by this date you will be marked as a “No” response.

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Our venue prohibits the following items!Our venue prohibits the following items!

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Drugs, weapons, fireworks, smoking/vaping indoors and/or your own alcohol. These items will put our wedding event at risk! Any one who brings these sort of items will be asked to dispose of them or leave them in your vehicle. Our venue monitors reserve the right to confiscate your items without return, charge you a fine and/or remove you from the premises if rules are not complied!

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Will alcohol be served?Will alcohol be served?

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We will be having a no-host bar! Please help yourself to the cooler for water and sodas but guests will need CASH for the adult beverages at the bar! The venue is supplying their own stock of beers and wine, for only $5/drink and MUST be served by the venue staff only! Drinks can only be consumed inside the barn or the landscaped lawn area.

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We DO NOT want anyone drinking and driving!We DO NOT want anyone drinking and driving!

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We recommend using rideshare apps (Lyft, Uber) for transportation if you plan on drinking! There is no overnight parking allowed, and everyone must be off the grounds by midnight so plan ahead with a DD or with rideshare services to the venue as well if everyone in your group plans on drinking.

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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited venue capacity, we are unable to accommodate plus ones unless it is specifically indicated on your invitation envelope. For example, your envelope would list “Your Name & Guest Name”. For families, it will list “Your Name & Family” or “The Your Last Name Family”. When you go to RSVP, you will be able to see the exact number of people you can RSVP for.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoor or outdoors?Will the ceremony and reception be indoor or outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be indoors. However we do have access to the grounds outside of the barn and there will be games on the lawn for all ages. Please refrain from crossing the highway to the garden side as we did not reserve that space. Please follow all designated smoking area signs as well.

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How does seating work?How does seating work?

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The ceremony will be open seating, with the exception of the first two rows we have reserved for our immediate family. Sit wherever you please. For the reception, we have a few tables marked as reserved for a handful of our guests who we have let know they have a reserved table. All other tables are open seating so please be courteous!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please arrive at the venue NO later than 15 minutes before the ceremony. If you arrive after the start of the ceremony, you will not be able to enter and will have to wait until after the ceremony.

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Can I take my own photos?Can I take my own photos?

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We are having an “unplugged ceremony”! This means that we are asking all cell phones and devices be put away and on silent during the ceremony because we have hired professionals to capture the most important moments of our day for us! Feel free to take as many photos and videos once the ceremony is over but please continue to stay out of the photographer and videographers way when appropriate! There will be information at the reception on how to upload your photos to a shared drive for all to see!

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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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We are not having a dress code. The only thing we ask is you don’t wear white, of course! ;)

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Where do we park?Where do we park?

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Guests need to park behind the barn ONLY! We did not reserve the garden side across the highway so you must enter on the barn side! Please leave the side and front lots of the barn completely open for our bridal party and vendors loading and unloading!