When asked how they met, Andrew and Steph usually exchange playfully nervous glances. If you are attending their wedding, you probably know why. The short (and basic!) version of the story is that Andrew and Steph met at a Dominican restaurant in Harlem while a friend they had in common was visiting town (Thank you, Cameron!) They shared a few beers, talked about shared interests and decided to get together for coffee on their own. The long (and more exciting!) version of the story is that Andrew and Steph met a Dominican restaurant in Harlem when Andrew’s (sneaky!) friend introduced them under the premise that they “both like God.” They shared several Negra Modelos, talked about theology, and decided to get together to extensively discuss the liturgical excitement of lent. When they met, Andrew was a Jesuit in formation and Steph was attending Union Theological Seminary. What started as a friendly camaraderie between two people exploring ministry grew into deep love grounded in a shared desire for a life together. While their commitment and love for each other eventually required life-altering decisions, Andrew and Steph also enjoyed the mundane joy of the first kiss at a park, and an exhilarating first date where Steph continuously mispronounced the name of her beer and Andrew spilled water all over the table.