All black! Men are required to wear a black suit jacket, black pants, and black shoes. White button up shirts are okay. Amazon, Walmart, and the clearance section of Men's Warehouse/JA Bank have cheaper options for suit jackets. For women, they should wear a black dress, no accent colors please. No white! That's just for the bride :)
Yes, all people over the age of 21 can enjoy an open bar on our behalf.