FAQs
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What should I wear?
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Semi-formal attire. Please no work boots or overalls (I'm looking at you, Uncle Jimmy). A suit or tux for men, and a dress or formal jumpsuit for women are possible options!
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Should I wear a particular color?
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If you'd like to be on-theme with our wedding colors, we are using dusty blue, navy blue, and sage green. Soft, muted spring colors would work fine, though!
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Do I need to bring a gift? Do you have a registry?
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If you'd like! We do not have a registry. We'd happily accept gifts from our guests, but do not expect one. We're just excited for you to join us on our special day.
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When should I arrive in Long Island?
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We suggest arriving Friday night (5/24) or Saturday morning (5/25). On Saturday, we will have a rehearsal at the church with those involved (time: TBD), followed by a rehearsal BBQ dinner at the Weibley House at 5:30pm.
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Where should I park?
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Weibley House: street parking St. Raphael's Parish: designated parking lot The Capital Grille: designated parking lot or valet parking
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Can I invite people to come to the church ceremony?
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No. We are keeping the ceremony and reception small. Please do not invite people to come to the ceremony that did not receive an invitation from us.
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What time will the ceremony end?
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Approximately 4pm. You may choose to return to your hotel/house you are staying at to recoup before dinner.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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No. Please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. We have hired an excellent photographer and we do not want guests interfering with her job.
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Should I change before dinner?
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If you have an outfit that is still semi-formal, but a bit more comfortable for dinner, you absolutely may change! We do ask attire remain semi-formal for the dinner. Our photographer will continue capturing the night throughout dinner.
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What food will be served at the reception? What kind of food?
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Yes. We are still determining if it will be a la carte for guests to order off the restaurant menu or if there will be select options to choose from.
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Is there a cocktail hour? Is there an open bar?
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No.
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What if it rains?
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Bring an umbrella.