Wedding Party

Hanna Melville

Bride

Thomas Bartling

Groom

Katrina Nowosielski

Maid of Honor

I met Trina when I moved to Seattle at four years old — we were shy, tiny neighbors who somehow decided we were meant to be best friends. Even though we went to different schools (and later lived in completely different states and time zones), our friendship never skipped a beat. She’s been by my side through life’s hardest seasons and happiest milestones, and she’s the one who can make me laugh until my stomach hurts. Growing up, she also had an unmatched talent for spilling literally anything within a five-foot radius — an iconic part of her charm and a core memory from our childhood. She was my first friend in a brand-new city, and after all these years, she’s still one of the most constant, irreplaceable, and joy-filled people in my life — spills and all.

Sean Simpson

Best Man

I’ve known Sean my entire life. While I didn’t grow up with brothers, I had Sean—and from the very beginning, we were more like brothers than cousins, for better and for worse. We’ve experienced all the usual sibling rivalries and grown through them into an unbreakable friendship. From family gatherings and cousin days to bleaching our hair together and skydiving in Hawaii, we’ve shared a lifetime of memories. Sean is the person I can call about anything, and I deeply treasure the bond we’ve built over the years. Choosing him as my Best Man was the easiest decision I’ve ever made.

Erin Laffin

Bridesmaid

I’ve known Erin since I was three months old (basically my whole life) — she isn’t just one of my best friends, she’s my chosen sister (and birthday twin… even if she insists on reminding me she’s a year older lol). We grew up on opposite coasts, but every time we’re together, it somehow feels like no time has passed at all. Some of my favorite childhood memories include her and I-- singing Raffi at the top of our lungs in the car, getting chicken pox at the same time, cooking and baking with Susu and Patrick, watching 4th of July fireworks in Boston with my parents, Christmases spent with our families while she danced in The Nutcracker with Boston Ballet, and summer days at Nantasket Beach riding the merry-go-round until we were dizzy. The list truly goes on — she’s been woven into every stage of my life even throughout the distance. Erin has been a steady, grounding presence since the day I was born, and I couldn’t imagine this celebration without her by my side.

Felix Kunstman

Groomsman

Felix is truly my brother overseas. We met in high school when he spent a year studying abroad in America, and the time he was here felt like an endless summer—filled with drama days, Yogurtland runs, prom, and far too many trips to Abercrombie. A year later, my first trip to Europe was to visit him back home in Germany. No matter the distance, our friendship has never wavered. After countless hours catching up over Zoom, whenever we’re finally together in person it feels like nothing has changed and we’re right back in high school. Felix is family to me, as I am to him, and I was honored to stand by his side last year as he married his incredible wife, Alisha.

Katrina Frame-Panciera

Bridesmaid

I met Kat when I was 18, and she quickly became one of my first true friends after moving to San Diego. We bonded almost instantly over our shared love of bands and concerts — especially The Jonas Brothers — and from that moment on, she’s been a constant in my life. Over the years, we’ve walked through some of life’s highest highs and toughest lows together. Kat is the kind of best friend who shows up exactly when you need her — whether it’s for support, a good laugh, a good cry, or usually a mix of all three. I miss our coffee dates and Torrey Pines hikes more than I can say, but the memories (and the calf muscles) live on. She is loyal, steady, and endlessly supportive, and I’m so grateful to have her by my side for this chapter and all the ones to come.

Julius Exner

Groomsman

I’ve known Julius since high school, and we’ve been inseparable ever since the day we were paired together for a skit in Oberle’s class. From roaming the quad in Ray-Bans and skinny jeans—convinced we were incredibly cool—to long days at the zoo, the Spot, and cruising around in the van listening to Vampire Weekend, those were some of the best days of my life. Even though we no longer live in the same state, we stay in close touch, and these days I proudly answer to “Uncle Thomas” to his two beautiful daughters. I’m incredibly grateful for our friendship and couldn’t be happier to have my chosen brother standing by my side on our big day.

Tori Bartling

Bridesmaid

Tori is so much more than my soon-to-be sister-in-law — she’s truly my chosen sister and one of my best friends. From the moment we met, she brought this bright, infectious energy into my life that has never faded. She keeps me young, keeps me on my toes, and keeps me laughing! She’s also taught me some important life lessons… like the fact that I should never try to keep up with her when drinking — a mistake I only needed to make once. Whether we’re getting ready together, sharing way too many inside jokes, or just talking about life, she has a way of making every moment feel fun and effortless. I’m so grateful that loving Thomas also means gaining Tori. She has become such a special part of my life, and I feel incredibly lucky to call her my family — not just by marriage, but by heart.

Andy Wong

Groomsman

I’ve also known Andy since high school, and together with Julius, we truly are the “Three Amigos.” Our shared love of comics and cinema made the start of our friendship effortless and set the stage for years of unforgettable memories. Andy has always been the Mickey to my Rocky—constantly pushing me to be better than I ever thought possible. From EMT classes and long days at the SDSU gym to roaming San Francisco, watching Sons of Anarchy or That ’70s Show under his parents’ gazebo, and even stumbling into a vampire-themed nightclub, every experience was better with Andy by my side. No matter what we were doing, I knew my chosen brother would make it memorable. I can’t wait to have him standing up there with us.

Cody Thomas

Bridesmaid

I met Cody in 2022 through her parents — our beloved “Florida Mom & Dad,” Jeff and Tam — when I moved to Florida for my dietetic internship. A fellow Californian and Disney lover, she quickly became like an older sister to me. From the very beginning, Cody made me feel seen, supported, and welcomed into a new city far from home. Her friendship has been a constant source of love, laughter, and encouragement. Whether we’re sharing heart-to-heart conversations, laughing over the silliest things, or cheering each other on through life’s challenges, she has a way of making even the most ordinary days feel meaningful. She’s been there for me during moments of doubt, celebrated my victories, and reminded me to find joy even when life feels overwhelming. Cody has brought light, warmth, and genuine care into my life in ways I didn’t even know I needed, and I feel so lucky that she’ll be standing by my side on such an important day — a true sister, a confidante, and a forever friend.

Justin Vanway

Groomsman

I met Justin on a road trip while he was dating one of my best friends, Sierra. A devoted disc golfer, he cautiously invited me to join him and his friends for a round in Austin—and after my first par (entirely skill-based), our friendship took off. Justin is the person I’m always happy to share a beer with or spend a day playing 18. From Disney trips with our spouses to escape rooms in Austin and full weekends camping and throwing discs, the memories we’ve made are unforgettable. I was honored to stand by Justin’s side in Puerto Vallarta as he married Sierra, and I’m just as honored to have him standing with me now.

Erik Griggs

Floral Escort / Usher

Nick Lidster

Floral Escort / Usher