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If you have any other questions other than what we've listed here, please reach out to Haley at hwhitbeck1994@gmail.com or Matthew at mjsterling09@gmail.com
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What if I didn't RSVP?

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To help us with our planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by the date we've provided. If we don't receive your RSVP by the date specified, we can't make exceptions and will have to mark you as a "no". We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, and we don't want to risk any hiccups in the planning process. We hope you can understand.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kiddos however, we have extended invitations only to the adults listed on the invitation. We hope you understand and use this evening as an opportunity to enjoy a romantic night out with your significant other.

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May I take a picture or video during the ceremony?

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We please ask you to respect our wishes to have a completely unplugged ceremony. We promise to share all the professional photos and videos with you as soon as we have them.

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Can I bring a date?

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As much as we would love to accommodate everyone, we have already finalized the guest list, and don't have any extra spots for plus ones. If a plus one has been extended to you, either their name would be listed along side yours on the invitation or the invitation will clearly indicate a guest being granted. We appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Is there a dress code?

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To help make this an unforgettable evening, we kindly ask that our guests dress to impress in their best Formal attire. While we love a good t-shirt and jeans combo as much as the next person, we kindly ask that you leave them at home for this occasion. Ladies, we kindly ask that you avoid wearing white or shade of white, we wouldn't want anyone to mistake you for the bride.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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If you choose not to utilize our complementary shuttle service there is plenty of parking available for you at Mountain House Estate. However, cars are not allowed to be left on the property over night. So if you plan to party at the bar, we ask that you take this into consideration before driving yourself to the venue. Please Note: The ceremony and reception are at the same venue, however the ceremony will be taken place at the big oak tree at the top of the hill. Shuttles and ride shares will be able to drop you off there for your arrival. However if you are driving yourself, parking is at the bottom of the hill, which then you will have to walk up.

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