Kids must be RSVP'd if they are attending but do know that this is primarily an adult event and there will not be accommodations or activities set out for children. Please plan accordingly!
Yes, check out the Travel & Accommodations page for all the info you need.
If you're invitation says "and Guest" then yes, otherwise we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.