Adair and I have known each other for several years. We originally met at his sisters house while I was there for a dinner with an old boyfriend, Jake. Adair says even back then he had an eye for me, but he was married and I too was in a relationship... little did we know.. this was the very beginning of fate. Over the years I would hear his name occasionally from mutual friends never once thinking twice about him. I ran into his sister in town around April 2017 and she told me about his divorce and how he was having a hard time dealing with it. I remember telling her I know what that is like. I had been hurt too in that way which ultimately ended my marriage. So I sent him a friend request on facebook never thinking he start talking to me. He accepted but didn't PM me until few months later. He was a lot of fun to talk to on the phone. I remember thinking he is so funny and sweet. How could anyone do him wrong? We talked back and forth through facebook for couple weeks, more and more conversation really. I found myself looking forward to hearing from him. He always could make me laugh. He never asked me out on a date. Im sure it had to do with everything he was going through but I enjoyed talking to him and finally just got up the courage to ask him. Not on a date but to just come over and hang out. He agreed! He came over and just talked about life! He didn't stay long that night but I ll never forget him leaving. I thought I would give him a friendly hug. After all he needed it! Well I stood up and the next thing I know Adair stuck his hand out and I was kind of confused but I stuck mine out anyway. He shook my hand and told me goodnight. I couldn't resist when he left messaging him and asking him why he shook my hand. He didn't know either but later he told me he was so nervous that's all he could think to do. LOL. After that night the following weekend he took me out on our first date and the rest in history.