FAQs

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What time should I arrive?

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Guests are kindly asked to arrive sometime during the Kabbalat Panim, which will begin at 5pm. The ceremony will begin promptly at 6pm in the sanctuary.

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What is a Kabbalat Panim?

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This is pre-nuptial receptions shortly before the chuppah ceremony. The bride hosts a women's reception in one area, and the groom hosts a reception for the men nearby. Light refreshments, and l'chaims are served at both receptions. The Ketubah (marriage contract) is also completed, witnessed, and signed during this time. After the Ketubah is signed, the groom goes to veil the bride. This is called the Bedecken. It’s often the most emotional moment of a Jewish wedding, where the bride and groom see each other for the first time before the main ceremony begins under the chuppah.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code is black tie optional. Women are invited to wear evening gowns or dressy cocktail dresses, and men may wear tuxedos or sharp dark suits. Please do not wear white or ivory. We can’t wait to see everyone dressed up!

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May I bring someone with me?

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To help keep the day meaningful for everyone, we kindly ask that only those listed on your invitation attend, including any guests or children who are specifically invited.

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May I take pictures?

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We're having an unplugged ceremony, so please no photos or videos during the ceremony. Feel free to take pictures during cocktail hour and reception!

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Is parking available?

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Yes, parking will be available at the venue. We want everyone to celebrate safely, so please plan ahead and use rideshare if needed. Transportation to and from the hotel to the venue will be available. Check out the Travel page for more information

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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All of the wedding events are indoors! Note, there will be a short walk outside.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have listed information on the room block on our Travel page.

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Who can I contact if I have more questions?

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grotch.est2026@gmail.com