What to Expect
Before the Ceremony
Kabbalat Panim: Our Pre-Ceremony "Cocktail Party" The wedding festivities begin even before the walk down the aisle! Think of the Kabbalat Panim as our version of a pre-ceremony cocktail party. During this time, Maia and David will greet guests in separate areas. Maia will be attended to by her close relatives and friends, while David is greeted at the Chatan’s Tisch (the groom’s table), where the Tena’im (conditions) and Ketubah are signed. The Badeken: The high point of this cocktail hour is the Badeken. Toward the end of the reception, David—accompanied by music and a joyous procession—is escorted to Maia for the veiling. This commemorates the matriarch Rebecca and symbolizes that while physical beauty is lovely, the beauty of the soul is paramount. At this time, Maia also receives traditional blessings from family members.
The Wedding Ceremony
The Chuppah: Our ceremony takes place outdoors under a wedding canopy known as a Chuppah. Its four open walls signify that our home will always be open to family and friends. Upon entering, Maia will circle David seven times, signifying creative completion and the protection of our new life together. The Ketubah: The Ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract with ancient roots. It is read aloud during the ceremony to separate the two parts of the wedding service, serving as a public declaration of our commitments to one another. Sheva Brachot: The Sheva Brachot are recited by distinguished guests and relatives over a cup of wine. These blessings focus on themes of joy, companionship, and the celebration of love. The Grand Finale: At the conclusion of the ceremony, David will break a glass to a chorus of "Mazel Tov!" From there, the party starts immediately—we invite everyone to join in the music and dance us right out of the ceremony and toward the reception!
The Celebration & Dancing
Following the ceremony, we will move indoors for dinner and high-energy dancing. We encourage everyone to join us for traditional Jewish, Israeli, and Secular dancing. Shtick: In between the dancing, it is a tradition for guests to perform "Shtick"—using costumes, props, or funny dances to entertain the bride and groom. We love a good theme and a good laugh, so if you've got something fun up your sleeve, we can’t wait to see it! Kippahs will be available for any men who wish to wear them. Most importantly, please bring your "dancing shoes"—we want you to be comfortable and out on the floor with us all night! Feel free to reach out to our Roshei Shtick, Akiva Groman and Noam Groman, for any questions or ideas.
Dress Code
Attire: Semi-Formal / Festive We want you to look and feel your best! Please join us in your favorite semi-formal or festive attire. While some guests may choose to observe modesty standards by covering their shoulders, please know this is entirely optional—we just want you to be comfortable. For those who wish to wear one, kippahs will be provided at the ceremony. Note on footwear: We plan on dancing the night away, so please feel free to bring a change of comfortable shoes for the reception!