We LOVE your kids, we want them to be there if you would like to bring them. We do want to let everyone know the Villa is not the most kid friendly and you will have to keep a very close eye on them. There are lots of stairs in the Villa, a large balcony, and an infinity pool where the reception will be held.
If your invitation says "and guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was only you.
It would be ideal for you to arrive Thursday, February 6th and depart Tuesday, February 11th, because we have events planned throughout those dates. However, we understand it isn't always practical to get away for 5 days. The wedding is on Saturday, February 8th to try and make it more convenient for those coming for the quick weekend trip.