We met at the local gym. I was getting off the treadmill and Spencer had his back to me facing a mirror. As I walked the aisle behind him our eyes met in the mirror and he turned around quickly. I froze thinking "can I help you”? He was wearing a flannel shirt with the sleeves cut off, jeans that had been cut off into shorts (jorts if you will), wrestling shoes and a green beanie. I remembering thinking “what is this guy wearing”? We exchanged a few words and went about our workouts. A while later I saw him riding a bike and something drew me to the bike next to him where we proceeded to talk for nearly an hour. There, we made plans to see each other at the gym and go for tea/coffee the next time. The rest is history.