Gregory & Lauralee
FAQs
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How should I RSVP?
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Responding to your RSVP is easy! Simply scan the QR code on the back of your invitation or visit the provided web address also located on your invitation. We can't wait to know if you'll be joining us to celebrate our wedding day!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Yes, you are welcome to bring a plus one. Please indicate their attendance when you RSVP. If you do not see another person’s name or “guest” when you RSVP, then a guest was not slotted for you, which indicates that only you have been counted to attend.
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Are kids welcome?
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We have chosen to host an adults-only wedding to ensure an elegant, intimate celebration that allows all of our guests to fully relax and enjoy the evening without childcare concerns.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin at 5:30pm. We welcome you to arrive 30 minutes prior to enjoy light refreshments and conversation.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Ladies are encouraged to wear cocktail dresses, and gentlemen can wear suits or sport coats with dress pants.
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Will there be alcohol?
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Yes, we'll be offering an open bar, treating our guests to complimentary drinks throughout the celebration. PLEASE BE SAFE! If you’re not staying at the venue’s hotel, please have a designated driver or ride share take you safely back to your hotel or residence. If you are staying at nearby hotel, inquire with their front desk staff about possible shuttle service for your convenience.
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Is smoking allowed?
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No! Smoking of any kind is strictly prohibited on Estancia La Jolla property.
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Can we bring confetti or something to throw for the couple’s send off?
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We appreciate the thought! The couple has already arranged a special send-off gift that guests will have the opportunity to pick up as the reception concludes. Please refrain from bringing rice, confetti, birdseed, shredded Mylar, sparklers, or any other items for dispersal, as these are not permitted inside the hotel or on hotel grounds.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, parking will be available for all our guests at Estancia La Jolla. Simply drive to the valet area at the property entrance, where their team will be happy to assist you. Please let them know you're attending the Smith/Spalding Wedding.
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Do you have a hotel block for guests?
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We have not reserved a hotel block for other than intimate family and bridal party members, but we recommend exploring local accommodation options that best suit your needs. We have listed a few nearby hotels under the “Travel” page on our site for your convenience. Please feel free to choose a hotel that provides the most comfort and convenience for you.
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Can you recommend nearby hotels?
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Absolutely! We've curated a selection of hotel recommendations on our website's Travel page—feel free to explore those options to find the perfect fit for your stay.
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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Rather than a traditional registry, we've chosen to set up a Honeymoon Fund, which you can find on the "Registry" page of our website. We'd be delighted if you'd consider contributing to help us celebrate this next chapter together.