FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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With most people traveling from out of town, we request that all RSVPs are accepted or declined by March 1st. If we do not hear from you prior to March 1st, we will automatically accept no for your invitation.

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Are Children Allowed At The Event?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding ceremony & reception will be an adult-only event. We hope this advance notice will allow you to join us and use this evening as a date night out! We appreciate you adhering to our wishes for the big day. For those traveling to San Diego with young ones, we are looking into child care for the wedding evening; children will be allowed at the welcome party (Thursday evening) only. Please let us know if this is something you are interested in for us to plan accordingly. A message with more information will be sent closer to the date!

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Can I Bring a Plus One?

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Plus ones are by invitation only, and we ask other guests to please not bring a plus one. Thank you so much for understanding!

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I am coming from. out of town. Where should I stay?

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We will be providing room block with group discounts, both of which can be found under the 'travel' section of the website once that information is available! There are limited rooms within the blocks, so we recommend booking your rooms as soon as you know you are going to RSVP. There are a multitude of options of hotels, Airbnbs, and other accommodations in San Diego if you choose to go a separate route. We know it is a far trip for some, and we are honored you are coming to celebrate with us!

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is black tie optional. Ladies: Formal cocktail attire is appropriate (long dresses/fancy cocktail dresses/dressy jumpsuits preferred). Gentlemen: Black tie is appropriate (tuxedos/dark suits and ties preferred). The Wedding Welcome event is upscale casual attire: something you would wear on a nice dinner out.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! There will be an open bar with Wine, Beer, Liquor & Cocktails. Please make sure to bring your ID.

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What type of food and drink will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?

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There will be tray passed hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour, and a plated meal for dinner. Dinner options will be provided within your invitation.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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We kindly request that you arrive at the ceremony site as early as 4:45, but no later than 5:15pm. If you arrive later than 5:30 pm, we kindly ask you to wait until the ceremony ends and join everyone at cocktail hour.

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Where should I direct additional questions to?

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Please feel free to send an email with additional questions to megandgray@gmail.com!

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My contact information or address is changed - how can I update it?

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Please make sure that all contact information (email, text, address) is correct before September 2025. You can update your contact information at this link: https://www.zola.com/addr/kO8my6lXD !