Thank you so much for the beautiful oak serving board! We can’t wait to use it during the many dinner parties you’ll be invited to this winter. Looking forward to celebrating with you at our wedding!

For a kitchen gift you received before your wedding

How did you know we were dreaming of those crystal champagne flutes?! They’re by far the most beautiful glasses in our home and we’ve never felt fancier. You’ll have to come over soon so we can toast to you! So excited to see you in June.

For drinkware you received before your wedding

We had a blast dancing the night away with you at our wedding. We also can’t thank you enough for the espresso maker. Our mornings have never been brighter! We can’t wait to see you in Austin next month… all caffeinated up!

For a coffee gift you received after your wedding

Where have you been hiding those killer dance moves? Thank you so much for rocking out at our wedding. And we absolutely love our new cast iron skillet and cookbook! We’re already cooking up a storm. Hope to see you soon in New York!

For cookware you received after your wedding

Thank you so much for the beer-brewing kit! We hope to be sipping backyard IPAs with you in no time. We missed you at the wedding, but know you were there in spirit. Can’t wait to see you when we’re back from our honeymoon!

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Meet the family and friends who will be walking down the aisle with us!

Grayson and Bernadette’s adorable pup! A mystery mix, 4 parts cute, 1 part rowdy and 100% lovable!

Leila Bailey Javier Wilkins

Bernadette’s goddaughter! She's 8 years old and lives in the Philippines.

Maxene Han

Grayson’s younger brother! He's a paralegal in New York City, loves board games, and will be bringing his wonderful girlfriend Sanobar to the wedding (sorry ladies).

Nate Wilkins

Bernadette's old best friend from way back when they met working at Kumon. Shreya will be bringing her handsome husband Dev to the wedding.

Shreya Jivani

The tall bearded Polish man who adores ice cream and video games. Oh and also a great roommate, helpful coworker, and a truly loyal friend. And Leila's favorite godfather. Ohana means family.

Chris Kondrat

The one who introduced Bernadette and Grayson in the very beginning! Spent many a day together when they all lived in Ithaca and still manage to see each other now even multiple states away.

Anastasia Mazur

Grayson's cousin from Texas! Ben and Grayson always had fun at family gatherings and neither time nor distance has broken the bond.

Ben Kugler

Bernadette's younger sister! They may not always get along but they have a true sister love that will last forever.

Bernadine Javier

Bernadette's brother! Only one year younger, the two grew up very close and experienced a lot of the same things and when he met Grayson, the two hit it off immediately!

Kevin Javier

Bernadette's first ever true roommate in college! Through thick and thin these besties have stuck together. She and Grayson ended up pretty close, too, when he wasn't being annoying...

Tay Morris

Grayson's old coworker and friend to this day. They've both been there to help each other out and since Grayson was just a groomsman for Justin this October, now it's Justin's turn!

Justin Mathews

Bernadette's best friend from the Physical Therapy program. They lived together for two years and have only gotten closer since!

Taylor Porter

Grayson's good friend since middle school. Though he was in Nate's grade the two became close over shared interests like tennis, snowboarding, and watching movies.

Sean Green

The other best friend from the Physical Therapy program! Mel lived with Bernadette and Taylor for two years and though she's far away in NYC, they all still try to talk as often as possible.

Melanie Chu

Grayson's old friend since elementary school. Their parents always spent time together so it wasn't uncommon to find him, Grayson, and Nate altogether causing trouble on their nights and weekends free.

Tabo Gruning

Bernadette's great friend from her good old days at Starbucks! The two originally met at Target where they both worked but managed to jump ship together and learn the ways of the green apron.