FAQs

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Who’s the bride and who’s the groom?

Answer

Neither! We’re doing this our own way. Since one of us is gender‑nonconforming, we’re not using gendered wedding roles. Just call us the couple or use our names (Luke and Gray) — that’s perfect!

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Feel free to express your personal style! We simply ask that your outfit aligns with the color palette shared in the invitation to help create a cohesive atmosphere.

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP by September 5th, 2026

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Can we give something not on the registry?

Answer

We’re fortunate to have most of what we need for our home. To help avoid duplicates, we’d appreciate choosing something from our registry.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Yes! We have accounted for all children of invited individuals!

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

Our invitations include the names of everyone invited. If a plus‑one wasn’t listed, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Your health and comfort are important to us. If you or any invited guests have food allergies, please let us know as soon as possible at (801) 695-6251 or (209) 643-9873. To err on the side of caution, you're also welcome to bring your own meal / snacks if preferred.

Question

Is there parking for the lunch celebration / ceremony?

Answer

Parking is available on-site for all guests at both locations.