FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Our wedding will have a cocktail attire dress code. Gentlemen: a suit or dress shirt with slacks/dress pants. Ladies: a cocktail dress, nice blouse, or elegant jumpsuit are appropriate. Please refrain from wearing pink or white as these are the wedding party colors. Guests should avoid wearing jeans, shorts, t-shirts, sandals, or sneakers.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited capacity, only those named on the RSVP tab of the wedding website will be accommodated. If you are permitted to bring a plus one, you will be able to register a "guest."

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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP, or can I do it online?

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The RSVP deadline is August 5, 2026. Please RSVP on the wedding website under the RSVP tab. Those who do not RSVP by the deadline will unfortunately be marked as not attending.

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What time should I arrive at the reception?

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Cocktail hour begins at 4:30pm, and the wedding party will arrive at 5:30pm. If you plan to eat dinner at the reception, please arrive by 6pm.

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Are kids allowed at the reception?

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Children named on the RSVP tab of the wedding website are invited to the reception.

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Will there be free parking at the reception?

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Yes, there is a free parking lot at the wedding reception. Free overflow parking will also be available on the street.

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Will alcohol be served at the reception?

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Yes, alcohol will be served at the reception. There will be an open bar from 4:30pm-9:30pm. After 9:30pm, you will be able to purchase drinks at the bar.

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What food will be served at the reception?

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There will be a barbecue buffet available for dinner, including pulled pork, beef brisket, and smoked chicken. There will also be traditional barbecue sides available, such as mac & cheese and coleslaw. If you have dietary restrictions, we cannot guarantee that the food available will be allergen-free.

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Where can I locate the wedding registry?

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We have registered at Amazon and Target. Links to the wedding registries can be found in the Registry tab of the wedding website. We also have several charitable donation funds available.

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I still have questions. What is the best way to contact the bride and groom?

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For questions about the wedding, please contact us via email at gravesschmittwedding@gmail.com