FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our special day! The dress code is formal, or black tie optional attire - color & fun textures highly encouraged. Please refrain from jeans, or any colors reserved for the bride like white or cream! Ladies are encouraged to wear floor-length formal dresses. Gentlemen may wear dress pants & suits, & a colorful tie if you choose! Use the Pinterest link below for inspiration. We can't wait to see all of our guests dressed their best for our big day! https://pin.it/6v3wEaEfL Deiter Wedding 2025 - Formal

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Our ceremony starts promptly at 1pm at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church. We ask that all guests arrive no later than 12:30 to ensure the ceremony starts on time!

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Can I photograph/video the ceremony?

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We ask that all electronics are turned off at the ceremony to stay fully present during the most important part of our day. Chris + Lara will capture every moment for us! After the ceremony has concluded, feel free to take whatever pictures and videos you want - and share them with us too!

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Can I bring my children/plus one?

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Children will be limited for our weekend of celebration! We kindly ask that only those listed on your save the date & invitation attend. Your invitation reflects the number of seats we’ve reserved in your honor. Thank you so much for understanding!

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What is a welcome party?

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We are so thankful for everyone traveling near and far to celebrate our wedding day with us! Our welcome party will be a relaxed gathering held at the beginning of the wedding weekend, giving all our guests a chance to mingle, enjoy some refreshments, & kick off the celebration with us before the big day. Information about this event can be found on the "schedule" tab!

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Are you registered? Where?

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While gifts are not expected, we are so thankful for everyone supporting us during this new chapter in our lives together! The registry tab at the top of this wedding website will have direct links to our registries. We are registered through Zola, Amazon & Target!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by October 1st. If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “no” so we may plan accordingly!