FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP on this website no later than July 30th, 2025. If you know earlier, we appreciate your prompt reply. If you are having any trouble accessing your RSVP form, text Margot at 617-997-8180 or Grant at 952-393-6982.

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What should I wear?

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Wedding Ceremony and Reception: Black-tie optional. Men are welcome to wear a tuxedo or can opt for a dark suit instead. Women are welcome to wear a formal evening gown or can opt for a mid-length cocktail dress or dressy separates/jumpsuit instead. Welcome Party: Cocktail attire. For men, we suggest dress shirts or suits; for women, we suggest midi-, knee-length, or maxi dresses (or dressy separates).

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to size restraints, we will only be able to accommodate the number of people that we have included on your invitation. If your invitation states, "and guest," then yes, you may bring a guest with you.

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Are kids welcome?

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Our wedding is an adults-only celebration. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive no later than 6:45pm for seating; our ceremony will begin promptly at 7:00pm.

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What's the easiest way to get to and from your wedding venue?

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If you are not within walking distance, we recommend taking an uber or taxi as there is no on-site parking at the library. There is also a T station right below the library (Green Line - Copley). If you are driving, there are nearby parking lots in Copley Square that you can pay to park in during the wedding (https://www.bpl.org/parking-near-the-central-library/).

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors in the courtyard, while the reception will take place indoors.