Wedding Party

Sydney Erspamer

Bride

Spencer Grams

Groom

Katelyn Hanke

Matron of Honor

Sydney is so excited to have her lifelong friend Katie as her Matron of Honor. They've been inseparable since they were babies, sharing countless memories and milestones together. Katie is not only an incredible friend but also an amazing nurse in Waupaca, always caring for others with the biggest heart. Sydney was honored to stand by Katie’s side as her Maid of Honor, and now she’s overjoyed to have Katie standing by hers on this special day!

Nickolas Grams

Best Man

Nick is Spencer's older and only brother! Nick and Spencer have been best friends from the time Spencer was born, making this even more special for the two! He lives in Springstead with his girlfriend Lynsey, where they recently purchased a home together! They both enjoy snowmobiling, hanging out and having fun. Nick is a 2nd Grade Teacher in Park Falls.

Lynsey Burzinski

Bridesmaid

Lynsey is Nick’s amazing girlfriend, and they’ve recently bought a house together in Springstead. She’s a passionate snowmobiler who loves adventure and spending time outdoors. Lynsey’s warm, fun-loving personality makes her an incredible addition to our lives, and we’re so happy to have her as part of this celebration!

Jack Erspamer

Groomsman

Jack is Sydney’s brother, and she’s so proud of everything he’s accomplishing. Currently studying finance in college, Jack is focused on his future while also enjoying life with his dog, Bogey. Jack and Spencer are no strangers either, from playing hockey together, and working on the semi-professional GKrew, for Brett, Spencer's dad. Sydney is thrilled to have Jack by her side on this special day!

Leah Mortensen

Bridesmaid

Leah is a dear friend to both the bride and groom. Currently studying at the University of Illinois, she brings so much joy and energy to every moment. Her friendship means the world to us, and we’re thrilled to have her join us in celebrating this special day!

Justin Donkin

Groomsman

Justin is Spencer's first exchange student brother! Justin came to the US in 2015 from South Africa and became inseparable. Justin is graduate of UW LaCrosse. Justin and his wife, Dr. Lilly Donkin reside in LaCrosse, and have a wonderful, crazy English Cream Golden named Dennis. Justin is an Invasive Cardiac Technologist at Gunderson Health.

Chloe Abrahamson

Bridesmaid

Chloe is Sydney’s best friend since middle school, and their bond has only grown stronger over the years. A dedicated nurse, Chloe now lives in Hawaii with her daughter and fiancé, but they’re planning to return to Wisconsin in August! Despite the distance, Chloe’s friendship has always been a constant source of love and support, and Sydney is so excited to have her by her side on this special day!

Nathan Grams

Groomsman

Nathan is Spencer’s cousin, but over the years, the bride and groom have shared many special memories with him as well. Currently in college and doing great, Nathan’s presence always brings joy, and we’re so happy to have him be part of this celebration!

Emily Names

Bridesmaid

Emily and Sydney met in college, and from there, they created countless fun memories together. Now a talented teacher, Emily has found her passion in shaping young minds, and she’s truly amazing at it! Sydney is so grateful for her friendship and is thrilled to have her celebrate this special day with us!

Tyler Hanke

Groomsman

Tyler is Spencer’s best friend, these two share a bond that is unknown to many. They have been close friends since childhood and have spent countless hours with each other. Tyler is married to Katie, and the two of them reside in Waupaca with their lovely dog, Brandy. Tyler and Spencer have taken the duty of joining the Waupaca Area Fire Department together, making them Brothers even more!

Alicia Ruechel

Bridesmaid

Alicia was one of Sydney’s first friends in college, and their friendship has been strong ever since. Now living and working in Milwaukee, Alicia has been a constant source of support and laughter. Sydney is honored to be a bridesmaid in Alicia’s wedding in October 2025 and is beyond excited that Alicia can be part of hers as well!

Joel Zachow

Groomsman

Joel is one of Spencer's closest friends, they first met their freshman year of college living on the same floor of the dorm. Becoming fast friends. Joel and Spencer have spent many long nights and weekends together from fishing to college life. Joel spends all of his time with his wonderful girlfriend, Katie or at work. Joel is currently a Project Manager for a Fiber Optic Installation company. He lives in Elk Mound, WI with his German Shorthaired Pointer, Nala.

Haddie Anderson

Junior Bridesmaid

Sydney had the joy of babysitting Haddie for three wonderful summers, and in that time, they built a bond that feels like sisterhood. Now in middle school, Haddie has grown into an incredible hockey player and an even more amazing person. Sydney is so proud of all she’s accomplished and thrilled to have her by her side on this special day

Aubrey Anderson

Junior Bridesmaid

Sydney had the pleasure of babysitting Aubrey alongside Haddie for three summers, and over the years, Aubrey has become like a sister to her. Now in middle school, she’s not only full of energy and heart but also a great hockey player and cross country runner! Sydney couldn’t be more excited to have Aubrey by her side on this special day!

Mary Erspamer

Mother of the Bride

Nancy Grams

Mother of the Groom

John Erspamer

Father of the Bride

Brett Grams

Father of the Groom