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What is the Dress Code?What is the Dress Code?

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Cocktail Attire - Día de los Muertos–inspired accents welcome

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Can I wear a Halloween costume?Can I wear a Halloween costume?

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Guests under the age of 10 are welcome to wear Halloween costumes if they want to! 🎃 For all other guests, we kindly ask that costumes be saved for another night. Our celebration honors the beauty and meaning of Día de los Muertos, and we want the evening to reflect that spirit.

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Do I need to rent a car?Do I need to rent a car?

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Guests will not need to rent a car. Everything is close in El Paso! Unless you're planning to take a day trip to Las Cruces or White Sands National Park, Uber/Lyft and walking around downtown is super easy to do.

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What airport should I fly into?What airport should I fly into?

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El Paso International Airport (ELP) is the closest.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Ceremony begins at 5:00 p.m.; guests should arrive 10–15 minutes early.

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Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?

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Sunset ceremony on the South Terrace at La Perla (outdoor terrace). Fun Fact: Elizabeth Taylor once lived in the Penthouse Suite (now the rooftop terrace) when she was married to hotelier Nicky Hilton!

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Is face paint allowed?Is face paint allowed?

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We will have a face painter onsite! Día de los Muertos–inspired makeup and attire is welcome.

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Are children invited?Are children invited?

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We adore your children, but our guest list allows for only the children in our immediate families and the wedding party. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you.

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Can I bring a plus‑one?Can I bring a plus‑one?

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Only if their name appears on the invitation and/or you have spoken to Amber & Graham about it.

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How do I RSVP?How do I RSVP?

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Scan the QR code or visit www.gramberwedding.com

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Will dinner be served?Will dinner be served?

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Yes—full dinner during the reception in the Trost Ballroom.

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Can you accommodate dietary restrictions?Can you accommodate dietary restrictions?

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Yes—guests can note restrictions on the RSVP form on our website.

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What time does the reception end?What time does the reception end?

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At 11:45 p.m., guests will follow Ayla outside to send Amber and Graham off in a sparkling farewell.