Best Man
Stephen has been a beacon of wisdom (and killer sourdough) in Graham’s life for a few years now. As both a spiritual guide and the mastermind behind Graham’s bread-making attempts, Stephen's mentorship is top-notch — though Graham is still a few loaves short of perfection! He’s always up for an adventure, whether it’s hiking a new trail or tackling life's big questions. Wise, fun-loving, and an incredible dad, Stephen is someone you want to emulate. His deep faith touches countless lives, and his lovely family has always welcomed Kara & Graham with open arms.
Maid of Honor
Morgan is Kara’s younger sister and best friend. Growing up, they were inseparable, spending countless hours playing make-believe, and their friendship has only grown stronger over the years. Despite being the younger sister, Morgan possesses a remarkable strength that Kara admires deeply. Her resilience in the face of challenges, compassion for others, and fierce loyalty to those she loves make her an inspiring presence in Kara’s life. As we celebrate this special day, Kara feels incredibly lucky to have Morgan by her side.
Groomsman
Brother of the Bride and tech guru extraordinaire, Wyatt Dahlenburg is always on the move — whether he’s biking, hiking, or skiing his way through the Colorado mountains. Married to the amazing Liz Dahlenburg, Wyatt's outdoor adventures are only rivaled by his knack for all things tech. Graham’s thrilled to be the first Dahlenburg brother-in-law, though that might mean giving Wyatt even more permission to crush him in future ski trips — or at the card table in a fierce game of Skip-Bo!
Bridesmaid
Liz is Kara's wonderful sister-in-law! She is kind, smart, and always knows how to bring a smile to our faces with her great sense of humor. A talented cook and baker, Liz loves to create delicious meals that bring everyone together. Family and friends mean the world to her, and she has a special way of making everyone feel loved and included. Kara and Liz share a love of travel and exploring new places. Kara is so grateful to have her by her side on this special day!
Groomsman
Tyler is Graham’s brother-in-law, married to Graham's sister, Chantel Cottle. Standing tall at 6'6", Tyler is hard to miss — especially on the dance floor, where his moves are just as sharp as his sass. Witty, charming, and athletic, he’s got all the essential Shuman male traits, plus a healthy dose of sarcasm that matches Graham’s own. Tyler is the brother Graham’s always wanted, even if Graham’s chances of surviving a wrestling match with him are slim to none!
Bridesmaid
Chantel is Graham's sister and Kara's future sister-in-law! With her vibrant personality and infectious laughter, she brings joy to every gathering. She has a knack for planning events and vacations, ensuring that every moment is filled with fun. Chantel always goes out of her way to support those she loves, making her an incredible friend and family member. Kara is so excited to have Chantel by her side on this special day and to share in all the wonderful memories to come!
Groomsman
Karsten is one of Graham’s best friends and former co-captain during their tennis days at Grove City College. Karsten has been a rock in Graham’s life — an incredible role model, a loyal friend, and the one person Graham can always count on. Together, they’ve shared countless memories: college adventures, BYOC (Bring-your-own cereal) shenanigans, and endless fun during tennis seasons. Karsten, along with Graham, was the king of bringing energy to 6 a.m. themed lifts — whether it was beach day, pajamas, or some other crazy idea to get everyone pumped. And while Karsten excels at many things, one thing he’ll never admit? The time Graham wrestled him to the ground for a few brief, glorious seconds!
Bridesmaid
Izzy is a cherished friend and wonderful bridesmaid! Her and Kara's friendship began at their church's father/daughter camp, Camp Paradise, when they were just eight years old. Growing up, they shared countless memories in choir and theater, often finding themselves cast as the same roles—like the memorable mother duck in their eighth-grade musical, Honk. Izzy’s empathetic nature and warm heart make her someone you can always count on, whether you need a listening ear or a cozy chat over a good cup of coffee. Kara is so grateful to have her by her side on this special day!
Groomsman
Austin is like that “girlfriend who went to another school” — everyone’s heard about him, but nobody believed he was real since we'd rarely see one another. Graham and Austin met through service work at the Pittsburgh Project, and their friendship was built on pranks, hard work, and deep conversations. Over the years, Austin has been Graham’s ultimate adventure buddy, joining him on spur-of-the-moment hikes in the Adirondacks, impromptu trips to NYC, skydiving, and so much more. Their bond has brought accountability, love, and affirmation into their lives, forming a true brotherhood. At Pitt, they were gym buddies, with Austin delighting in absolutely decimating Graham in every workout imaginable
Bridesmaid
Lindsay is a dear friend and one of Kara's amazing bridesmaids! Lindsay and Kara's friendship began in fifth grade through their church small group. Lindsay is fiercely loyal and passionate, with a heart that truly cares for those around her. As a special education teacher, she makes a meaningful impact in the lives of her students every day. Outside of her inspiring work, she’s also a proud dog mom, always ready to share stories and photos of Marley and Oban. Kara is so excited to have Lindsay by her side on this special day!
Groomsman
Eric is the ultimate story of foe turned friend. He started as a rival tennis teammate at Grove City College, but that rivalry quickly evolved into early morning breakfasts and epic Mario Kart showdowns during chapel (don’t worry, we had all our chapel credits!). Since college, Eric and Graham have traveled together quite a bit, hitting up the Cincinnati Tennis Open and attending teammates’ weddings. Eric is a tennis slapshot specialist, a running enthusiast, and an incredible Spartan Race partner who’s always up for a challenge. Plus, he’s a road trip warrior who can fall asleep in a car instantly. Graham is truly grateful for their epic origin story and the strong friendship they’ve built along the way.
Bridesmaid
Amy and Kara met while working together at HOPE International and living in Lancaster, and Kara has been grateful for her friendship over the past three years. Amy is a fellow coffee shop enthusiast, and she and Kara have spent many mornings at Copper Cup with an oat milk coffee and good conversation. Amy has a beautiful heart for God and is known for being wise, faithful, and honest. She is always there to support those around her, walking alongside friends through both the ups and downs of life. Kara admires her confidence and authenticity and is thrilled to have her by her side on this special day!
Groomsman
Jon is Graham’s chaplain protégé and a cherished friend from the Grove City men’s tennis team. Known for his intentionality and wisdom, Jon has a unique ability to offer profound insights or deliver perfectly timed roasts with unvarnished truth. During college, Jon was a helpful guide whenever Graham needed advice and took on the chaplaincy role with great skill. His support didn’t stop there — Jon has continued to aid Graham in his faith journey even after college. They’ve shared countless laughs and deep conversations, and Jon can vouch to Kara that Graham won’t be a terrible roommate, having spent time in Lancaster County after graduation when Jon relocated there for work. Their bond is built on genuine connection and shared experiences that continue to enrich both their lives.
Bridesmaid
Lauren is a coworker at HOPE International, but she is also a dear friend and Kara's roommate for the past two years! With her fierce loyalty and joyful spirit, she has a remarkable ability to make everyone feel valued and appreciated. As an Enneagram 2, Lauren is always intentional about planning meaningful moments together, whether it's a cozy night in or an adventure out. Her warmth and thoughtfulness shine through in everything she does, and Kara feels lucky to have her by her side on this special day!
Groomsman
Gavin is the younger brother Graham never had, yet his wisdom and maturity make it hard to believe he’s just recently graduated from college (Congrats, though you still look like you’ve just graduated high school!). Though they only had half a semester together at Grove City College, it was packed with memorable moments: dinner dates where Gavin indulged in enough ice cream to make any mother worry, and practice sessions where Gavin not only embarrassed Graham but also called out all his smack talk bluffs. Graham has cherished going back to Grove to visit Gavin and watch him grow into the remarkable person he is today. Gavin speaks immense truth into Graham’s life, just as Graham strives to do the same for him.
Bridesmaid
Juliana is a wonderful coworker at HOPE International and a cherished friend! Known for her thoughtfulness and kindness, Juliana has a special talent for connecting with people, always asking intentional questions that spark meaningful conversations. One of Kara's favorite memories with Juliana was visiting her hometown of Honolulu, Hawaii! They had an amazing time visiting beaches, snorkeling, and eating acai bowls and fresh shrimp. Kara is so grateful to have Juliana by her side on this special day!
Bridesmaid
Brittany is a friend, roommate, and coworker at HOPE International. She and Kara have a lot of fun together, often embracing their competitive sides during board game nights(watch out during Settlers of Catan) or on the pickleball court. She has a deep love for her family, especially her two (soon to be three!) adorable nephews, who bring her so much joy. I’m thrilled to have Brittany by my side on this special day, ready to celebrate with all the fun and love she brings!