FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our friends and family dressed up with us. We are requesting a black tie optional dress code. Ladies: Formal attire is appropriate (long dresses/fancy cocktail dresses/dressy jumpsuits preferred). Gentlemen: Black tie is appropriate (tuxedos/dark suits and ties preferred).

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How do I book a hotel room at Turning Stone

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You can access the discounted room block by calling 800-771-7711, asking for accommodations, and giving them the following information: Toomey/Trenca Wedding 9/12/26

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What time should I arrive?

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Our church ceremony will start promptly at 1:00 in the afternoon. To avoid being late and missing anything, we recommend arriving at 12:30 to ensure parking and finding a seat before it begins. Ceremony Location: St Joseph Church 121 Saint Joseph Place, Oneida, NY 13421 (There is a parking lot to the left of the chruch)

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you have received a plus one that will be listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids allowed?

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We love your little ones! However, due to limited space, we have decided to keep our wedding adults only. We encourage you to use this as a date night to get out and have some fun!

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" no phones or cameras in the church. The greatest gift you can give as we say "I do" is being fully present with us. We have hired professionals to capture the moment for us and we promise to share our photos when we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like!!