FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by March 20th, 2026 so we can give final head counts to all of our vendors! We want to be sure to have enough food and drinks for everyone!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive no later than 5:15 pm so that all guests are seated prior to the start of the ceremony. We don't want anyone to miss any part of this awesome party and you will be asked to wait outside until the ceremony is over if arriving past 5:15 pm!
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Is there a dress code?
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We cannot wait to see all of you dressed to impress! The dress code is formal with spring colors and florals. Think floral cocktail dresses for the ladies and suits for the men, please no jeans! Formal wear outside the color palette is welcome, as long as it's still formal! If you are needing some inspiration, check out this Pinterest board! https://pin.it/1m7XXR4vy
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Can I bring a date?
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If you received a plus one, it will say so on the invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP. Otherwise, we would love to keep our wedding as intimate as possible with close family and friends. Thank you for understanding!
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What if I cannot make it?
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If you cannot make it, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “not attending” so we can plan accordingly! We will miss you!
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your little ones - but this celebration is adults-only, with the exception of immediate family kiddos. After 9:15 pm, the party will not be kid-friendly (think loud music, strong drinks, and questionable dance moves), so please plan accordingly. We hope that you can enjoy a well-deserved night off!
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes! We are mainly registered on Amazon! You may notice that the shipping address is in Oklahoma, that is because Jody is currently stationed here and the newlyweds will be starting their new home there!
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What is the After Hours Dancing?
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We love to dance and go out, so we wanted to bring a little piece of that into our wedding day—while still keeping the earlier part of the evening family-friendly. The first portion of the night will feel like a classic wedding dance floor with family friendly, all-ages music. Later on, we’ll transition into “After Hours,” which will have more of a 2010s club vibe—higher energy, bigger beats, and a totally different feel. If you’re up for it, we’d love for you to stay, join us, and really get into it. Bring the energy, bring the fun, and get ready to get down!
