Flight
SFO is the most accessible/easiest airport option, with BART public transit to downtown San Francisco. Uber fares fluctuate, typically $30-$60. San Jose Airport (SJC) and Oakland (OAK) are also very accessible, with slightly longer commutes into the city.
Hotel
Downtown - they have a really nice indoor pool
House Or Rental
The Mission - Bed and Breakfast with really funky decor - situated basically in our backyard if you wanna hang
Hotel
Downtown - they seem to have a little lower rates - amazing Thai restaurant (Kin Khao) located here
Hotel
Downtown - modern hotel - the rates are pretty low for the week of the wedding compared to their usual
Rental Car
We use Zipcar often for day use - usually about $100/day - may need to sign up in advance