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The Wedding Website of Erin Gossett and Thomas Speicher
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When should I RSVP?

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We ask that you RSVP as soon as you can, so we can organize with our vendors. However, the deadline is October 25, 2025.

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What if I can't make it?

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Your presence will be missed. We ask that you RSVP "No" as soon as possible. If you have already RSVP'd "Yes" but find that you will be unable to attend, please notify the Maid of Honor, Casey Leff, at 214-518-9553.

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What if I didn't RSVP in time?

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If we do not receive your RSVP by the specified date, it will be automatically marked as "No." We will miss celebrating with you, but we must provide our vendors with a final guest count within the timeframe they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

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What time should I arrive?

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We kindly request that guests arrive no later than 4:00 p.m. to ensure everyone has secured parking and is seated for the ceremony, which will begin promptly at 4:30 p.m.

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Is there a dress code?

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Dress to impress! Our wedding is Formal or Black Tie optional, meaning women should wear floor length dresses or gowns and men should wear formal suits or tuxedos (please no jeans).

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Can I wear black?

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Yes! Black is always a great option, but any formal, elegant evening attire is also appropriate. You can definitely wear any other color except white or cream.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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In order to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus one they will appear when you RSVP.

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Where should I stay?

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First, thank you so much for traveling the distance to celebrate with us! We have provided a list of accommodations under our Travel tab, along with links for each location. You do not have to choose one of the options we suggested, but we hope it helps in your search.

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Can I take photos and videos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you put your phones away during the ceremony. We have hired an amazing photographer, who will be there to capture all the moments of the ceremony. Feel free to take as many photos/videos as you like once the ceremony is finished!

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Are children invited?

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While we love your little ones, this is strictly an adults-only occasion, with the exception of those children in the wedding.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us, and the hangover is on you! Please arrange transportation from the venue if you plan on drinking.

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