Our wedding will begin at 5:00pm. Doors to The Graham Mill will open at 4:15, and we politely request that all guests are seated by 4:45.
Due to the logistics of our wedding, and with respect to our vendors, we politely request that you RSVP no later than 11:59pm on Wednesday, May 13th.
We politely request that all phones are silenced/turned off and put up during the duration of the ceremony, roughly from 4:45 - 5:30pm. Before this time, as well as after, we would love for you to help document our special day with us using Once, a photo-sharing app that you do NOT need to sign-up for to use!! You will see QR codes throughout the venue that will ask you to take pictures and upload them to a shared album for everyone to see and enjoy!
Are you traveling east/from Salisbury, Charlotte, or Greensboro? Take I-85 North / I-40 East towards Burlington. Take Exit 147 (NC-87 toward Graham/Pittsboro). Turn left onto NC-87 North, and continue about 2 miles into downtown Graham. Turn left onto W Harden Street. The Church and Parking Lot will be on your left, and the Graham Mill will be ahead (the white building) on the right. Are you traveling traveling west/from Raleigh, Wilmington, DC? Take I-40 West towards Greensboro, and merge onto I-85 South. Take Exit 147 (NC-87 toward Graham/Pittsboro). Turn right onto NC-87 North, and continue about 2 miles into downtown Graham. Turn left onto W Harden Street. The Church and Parking Lot will be on your left, and the Graham Mill will be ahead (the white building) on the right.
Yes! The Graham Mill is fully accessible for guests in wheelchairs and using walkers. There is one level for the venue, and it is flat at all entrances into the ceremony/reception area. Accessing the social hour/outdoor area does include an elevation change, but a ramp is provided for guests needing an easy way in and out of these spaces.
The Graham Mill does not offer parking on site. However, there is a public lot off of Maple Street and another off of Harden Street. These are both a very short walk to the venue. Please do not park at the other businesses around The Graham Mill - they do enforce towing. Please use the following link to access a map you can use for parking! https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Sv1-2s0d9-mUlC0XEcJaYM9weVp8d1Gs/view?usp=sharing
We politely request that guests refrain from bringing their own water bottles, Owalas, Stanleys, Yetis, etc. because these have a tendency to fall over at the most inconvenient times! Prior to the ceremony, we are happy to provide water bottles to all guests in attendance. During the social hour we are happy to offer sodas and water, and during dinner and the reception we will have water, tea, and lemonade to quench your thirst!
We politely request that guests refrain from eating during the ceremony. During social hour, we are happy to provide guests with charcuterie-style appetizers. Dinner will feature a meal from Smokehouse at Steve's Garden Market in Graham that includes barbecue pork, barbecue chicken, macaroni and cheese, sauteed green beans, and a mixed greens salad. During our reception we are also offering guests part of our wedding cake, which are cinnamon rolls from Eat Cakes Bakery in Kannapolis! For guests with dietary restrictions or requiring gluten-free options, we ask that you notate that in your RSVP and we will accommodate you in every way!
We know it is summer in North Carolina and that it may be warm! The ceremony and reception will be inside, but we do have access to an outdoor space that will be used for our cocktail hour. We request that you dress formally, but comfortably. We do not want to limit your choices, but we do ask that the t-shirts, jeans and jean shorts, bathing suits, hats, crop tops, and booty shorts stay home this time! Our wedding party will be in light blue and purple, so we kindly request that you refrain from clothing in those colors.
All kinds! We want our day to include you as much as possible, and part of your RSVP asks you to give a song suggestion! We would love for you to tell us your favorite tune so we can sing and dance the night away together! Be aware that some music played may include language or content that could be inappropriate for younger ears.
We love our friends and families with kiddos! However, we politely ask that you find childcare for your little ones unless your RSVP has specifically included your child/children on it.
We love that you have someone you want to spend time with! However, unless your RSVP notates your plus one (or provides space for one) please do not invite anyone additional or request for anyone to be invited for you.
We encourage you to make the best choice for your family in terms of your accommodations. If you are planning to stay overnight (which we do suggest on Sunday night so you can feel free to party with us until the end!), you are more than welcome to find your own lodging through AirBnB, VRBO, or other hotels. However, we have done some legwork for you, and we are proud to offer a hotel block at the Holiday Inn Express Burlington (roughly 10 minutes from The Graham Mill). To book (and save some money) you can use our specific link, listed below (we apologize it is long): https://www.ihg.com/holidayinnexpress/hotels/us/en/find-hotels/select-roomrate?fromRedirect=true&qSrt=sBR&qSlH=GSONC&qRms=1&qAdlt=1&qCiD=26&qCiMy=052026&qCoD=29&qCoMy=052026&qGrpCd=GOO&setPMCookies=true&qSHBrC=EX&qDest=2701%20Longpine%20Road,%20Burlington,%20NC,%20US&showApp=true&adjustMonth=false&srb_u=1&qRmFltr= In order to get the discount, you MUST book by Tuesday, May 26th!