House Or Rental
We highly suggest staying in an Airbnb for the weekend! Look for rentals in the following towns: Greenport Southold Peconic Cutchogue Mattituck Stay away from Sag Harbor and Shelter Island, unless you want to take a short ferry ride to and from your rental. Anywhere you stay will be safe, pretty, and loads of fun. If you want a few people to split the house with, let us know, and we'll connect you with other guests! There are a few great traditional Bed and Breakfasts we know of as well, including: Ellis House Bed and Breakfast Fordham House Bed and Breakfast
Hotel
If you prefer the standard hotel experience, there are quite a few of your typical hotels in the Riverhead area (about 30 minutes from the wedding location), as well as a few boutique hotels in Greenport like these: American Beech The Greenporter (we're staying here the night of the wedding!) Harborfront Menhaden Soundview Gallery Hotel Blue Inn
Flight
NYC/ Long Island have a few airports, and all are good choices, but Long Island MacArthur Airport (ISP) may be your best bet if you don't want a long drive. ISP is an hour drive from the wedding location, where as JFK and LGA are about two hours. If you're looking at Newark, it's about a two and a half hour drive to Greenport.