As much as we love your children, we kindly ask that you make arrangements for them to not attend. If you have no other choice, then we understand! But due to limited seating, alcohol consumption and the size of the venue, we are asking to please make accommodations.
If your invitation says "and guest" then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Well.. it's simple! It's a backyard BBQ style wedding. Clean the dirt off them cowboy boots and come enjoy an evening of BBQ food, alcohol and fun! Casual dressy will be okay. If you want to throw a little country style into it, then so be it! Also, the ceremony and reception will be on grass, so females, plan your shoes accordingly!