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May 27, 2023
Belvidere, IL
#DaMWedding

Michelle & Dan

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When is the big day?

Answer

We have picked May 27th, 2023!

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Can I bring my kids?

Answer

We love your kids, but this will be an adult only event. We understand that this may mean that you will not be able to attend the wedding and we totally understand that and will not be offended if this means you can't come.

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Who is changing their name?

Answer

No one! Both Dan and Michelle like their last names, and have decided to keep them.

Question

Why did I only get the reception info and not the ceremony info?

Answer

Our ceremony venue is very small and won't hold all of the people we wish it could, but we can't wait to celebrate with you at the reception!

Question

Is there really only going to be vegetarian and vegan food?

Answer

Yes! We know that it's not something you may be used to but having a fully vegetarian and vegan wedding aligns with our beliefs. The food will still be delicious, we promise!

Question

Dan is non-binary, so what do we call them instead of groom?

Answer

Michelle's spouse or partner are great options as well as merrier. Ex. "The Bride and Merrier!" You can also say things like the newlyweds, or happy couple. Instead of Mr. use Nb. by just saying the two letters. Ex. "Nb. Heskamp" And don't forget to use they/them pronouns when referring to Dan! If you need some help with understanding how to use gender identity terms check out this link! https://www.npr.org/2021/06/02/996319297/gender-identity-pronouns-expression-guide-lgbtq?fbclid=IwAR0Lkm59ad388B6GbWRiO4knZi3Dc3EIsOF2R7kopogDganh8z85bcNtdZ8

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We are asking everyone to dress in cocktail attire.

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