When did you know they were “The one”? The peace and security I felt. He is considerate, kind, loving, consistent, and stubborn at times, but most importantly, his love for God and family. Gil: Carla has brought so much joy/stability and happiness into my life. I often push others away but after 14 years of the single life/solitude, I finally found what was missing to complete my life journey. We look forward to celebrating our love with our families and friends.