FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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The RSVP link is now closed. If you need to update or make changes to your RSVP, kindly contact Ashley directly.

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What is the dress code?

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We respectfully ask our guests to join us in formal attire as we celebrate our special day. For gentlemen, this means suits or tuxedos with dress shoes, and for ladies, elegant cocktail dresses, evening gowns, or dressy separates. Please refrain from wearing jeans as we want to maintain a classic and sophisticated atmosphere. Your presence means the world to us, and we can’t wait to see you dressed to the nines as we make unforgettable memories together.

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Are plus one's or children allowed?

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We request that our celebration remain an adults-only event, except for children who are participating in the ceremony. We love your little ones, but we hope you enjoy a night off to relax and celebrate with us. Plus ones are welcome, as long as they have been registered in advance through your RSVP. Thank you for understanding and helping us create a joyful and seamless experience for everyone.

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Will there be parking for the ceremony?

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Parking for The Graham Mill is conveniently located in a large lot across from the venue, making it easy for guests to arrive and enjoy the celebration without hassle. Signage and attendants will be available to help guide you if needed.

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Our ceremony is unplugged—what does that mean for you?

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It means we ask that all guests turn off and put away phones, cameras, and other devices during the ceremony. We want everyone to be fully present with us in the moment, without distractions or screens. Don’t worry—our professional photographer will be capturing every special detail, and we’ll be excited to share those memories with you afterward. Thank you for helping us create a meaningful and intimate atmosphere!

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What is the arrival time for the ceremony?

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Feel free to begin arriving at 3:45 PM to allow time to park, find your seat, and settle in before the ceremony starts. We can’t wait to welcome you and share this special moment!

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Where are we registered?

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Your love and support mean the world to us, and we’re so grateful to have you in our lives. Instead of a traditional gift registry, we’ve created a Honeyfund—a simple and meaningful way for guests to contribute to our honeymoon adventures and future experiences together. If you’d like to view our registry or give a gift, you can visit it here: https://www.honeyfund.com/site/barber-heggie-11-21-2025 (If the link doesn’t open automatically, please copy and paste it into your browser.) Thank you for helping us make memories that will last a lifetime!

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What if I miss the RSVP deadline?

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We’d love to hear from you as soon as possible! If you’re running late, please reach out directly so we can plan accordingly.