Wedding Party
Allyssa Bergevain
Maid of Honor
A Note from Amanda: Allyssa is my big sister. She is five years older than me, which means a good portion of our childhood was spent with her bossing me around like it was her full time job. We used to fight like it was an Olympic sport, and trust me, we were both aiming for gold. Somewhere between the teasing, the eye rolls, and all the dramatic sibling moments, something shifted and she became my best friend. She is fiercely loyal, unapologetically honest, and the first person I turn to when I need to laugh, cry, vent, or even make a questionable life choice with confidence. Over the years, she has shown up for me in both big and small ways, always with love, even if it comes with a little tough sister energy. I am so lucky to have her by my side, not just as my maid of honor, but as one of the most important people in my life. And this time, no fighting. Probably.
Haley Taylor
Bridesmaid
Haley, Alec’s big sister, welcomed me as her own so early on in my relationship with him, and I will always be deeply grateful for that. From the very beginning, she made me feel like part of the family with no questions and no hesitation, just love, acceptance, and support that I have come to treasure more than words can say. She is one of the most easygoing and kind hearted people I have ever met. She listens without judgment, brings a sense of calm to any chaos, and has an effortless way of making everything feel a little brighter just by being there. Over the years, she has become so much more than a sister in law. She has been my sounding board, a support system, and someone I can always count on. I am so lucky to have her in my life, and even luckier that I get to officially call her my sister, even though it has felt that way for a long time.
Devin Abel
Bridesmaid
A Note from Amanda: Devin is Alec’s Best Man’s amazing wife, and one of the easiest, most genuine people I’ve ever connected with. From the moment we met, it just clicked within minutes, we were deep in conversation, probably about some book we both couldn’t stop thinking about. That instant connection has only grown stronger over time. We share the same taste in stories, a similar way of thinking, and a kind of humor that turns quick chats into hours-long conversations filled with laughter and meaning. Devin is thoughtful, sharp, and insightful. I feel so lucky our paths crossed the way they did. Even luckier to have her not just as a friend and fellow bookworm, but now as a bridesmaid standing by my side. Her kindness, wisdom, and unwavering support mean so much.
Genevieve Kelley
Bridesmaid
A Note from Amanda: Genevieve and I have known each other literally since before we were born — our moms worked together and were pregnant just weeks apart. Every little girl dreams of growing up with a built-in best friend, and somehow, we were lucky enough to have exactly that. From playdates and birthday parties to late-night chats and the biggest milestones in life, Genevieve has been a constant presence a steady, loving force who’s shared in my joys, and celebrated every step along the way. We’ve grown up together, changed together, and supported each other through it all. Having her by my side means the world to me.
Rebecca Pinnow
Bridesmaid
A Note from Amanda: Becca and I met in college, and from the very beginning, it just clicked. Some of my happiest college memories have her in them, and I cannot think of that time in my life without thinking of her. She is the person I can tell absolutely anything to, always without judgment. Becca has this incredible way of making me laugh and bringing out my weirdest, most authentic self. Somehow, she always understands me in a way that not many people do. Through everything, she has been such a calm and steady presence in my life. She carries herself with a quiet strength and kindness that I have always admired, the kind that makes people feel safe, supported, and truly cared for. Having her show up for me again and again makes me feel incredibly lucky.
Morgan Abel
Best Man
A Note from Alec: Morgan and I grew up fishing, getting into trouble, and sneaking onto private property more times than we probably care to admit — all in the name of finding the perfect fishing spot. From then to now, not much has changed. I am grateful to call him my best man.
Cade Garrison
Groomsman
A Note from Alec: Cade’s been there through it all — my sidekick, my rival, and my best friend rolled into one. We’ve made a lifetime of memories together, and I couldn’t be prouder of the man he’s become. I’m lucky to have him as my brother and honored to have him in our wedding.
Zach Clisch
Groomsman
A Note from Alec: From college days to countless fishing trips across the country, Zach has been one of my greatest friends and adventure partners. I’m grateful for all the memories we’ve made and honored to have him standing by my side on our wedding day.
Aron Pontillo
Groomsman
A Note from Alec: Aron and I grew up together and went on to share some of the best years of our lives in college. From late-night laughs to unforgettable adventures, he’s been a constant through it all, and I’m grateful for his friendship and honored to have him standing by my side on our wedding day.
Benedict Helding
Groomsman
A Note from Amanda: Ben, my little brother is eight years younger than me, but I still remember holding him for the first time and thinking, “How is this baby basically my size?” From the start, he was funny, curious, and totally his own little character. Growing up, he was my sidekick — we made up countless dances to NEVERSHOUTNEVER songs like we were headlining a tour, and we watched his favorite baby shows like Oswald and Wonder Pets... even though I secretly loved them just as much as he did. Now he’s somehow a full-grown human, and I couldn’t be prouder of the kind, funny, and thoughtful person he’s become. But no matter how tall he gets or how adult he acts, he’ll always be my little brother.
Gabriel Helding
Groomsman
A Note from Amanda: Gabe, my "baby" brother is 11 years younger than me, and I still remember the day he was born — because it was the only time I was ever allowed to check my phone at school to see if my mom popped him out yet. I was so excited — one cool little brother wasn’t enough, now I had two. Gabe was the fearless one from the start — a full-on daredevil who never hesitated to launch himself into whatever chaos looked the most fun. There was definitely a stretch where I was his sworn enemy, but as he’s grown into a young man, we’ve found our groove — cracking jokes, swapping stories, and bonding over his volleyball games, which I love cheering him on at. Even though he once declared me his arch-nemesis, he’ll always be my baby brother.
Brylee Taylor
Flower Girl
A Note from The Couple: Brylee is our hilarious, wild, fierce, and completely unforgettable 3-year-old niece! She might be small, but her personality is huge. Whether she’s making us laugh with her goofy, wild energy, or completely stealing the show, Brylee lights up our entire world. Having her as our co-flower girl will make our day so bright!
Brynlee Taylor
Flower Girl
A Note from The Couple: Brynlee might be our younger (and chunkier!) niece, but she’s just as full of love and energy as her big sister, Brylee. She’s completely obsessed with Alec but saves plenty of cuddles for the both of us. Whether she’s dancing her heart out or sneaking snacks (because food is definitely one of her true loves), Brynlee lights up every room with her big personality and even bigger hugs. Having her as our co-flower girl means our day will be full of smiles, cuddles, and plenty of dancing!
Sarah Helding
Mother of the Bride
A Note from Amanda: My mom is a force of nature — equal parts strength, sass, and heart. She’s built an incredible life for our family through sheer determination and love, all while somehow being my go-to for literally everything. Stub my toe? I text her. Mysterious red bump? She’s getting a photo. No inconvenience is too small — and somehow, she always knows exactly what to say. We can have an entire conversation across the room without saying a full sentence — a true superpower. On a day that’s all about love, I’m so lucky to be surrounded by hers — the kind that’s fierce, funny, and unfailingly supportive. She’s my role model, my partner in crime, and today, the most fabulous mother of the bride anyone could ask for.
Wade Helding
Father of the Bride
A Note from Amanda: My dad was my first teammate in so many ways — from the soccer field where he coached my very first team, to the couch where we spent hours playing video games together. But some of my favorite memories are of us reading books side by side, especially The Chronicles of Narnia. Those stories stayed with me, and one line in particular — “Courage, dear heart” — became the inspiration for my first tattoo. It’s a reminder of the quiet strength and encouragement he’s always given me. As I start this new adventure, I’m carrying that courage with me — along with laughter and slightly competitive gaming spirit he raised me with.
Becky Garrison
Mother of the Groom
A note from Alec: My mom has been my biggest supporter, teacher, and source of strength throughout my life. Her love, patience, and encouragement have shaped me into the person I am today. She’s always made sure we had everything we needed and more, often putting everyone else before herself. I’m endlessly grateful for everything she’s done and honored to have her by my side as we celebrate this new chapter.
Erik Garrison
Father of the Groom
A note from Alec: My dad has always been my role model and the person I’ve looked up to most. His quiet strength, humor, and guidance have shaped so much of who I am. From long hours spent working on cars together to sharing laughs in the garage, he’s taught me lessons that go far beyond fixing engines. I’m deeply grateful for his love and support as I enter this next phase of life.
Katie Markson
Emotional Support Aunt
A Note from Amanda: Katie has been my sounding board, creative partner, and biggest cheerleader throughout the wedding planning process. Her love and support mean so much to me!