We would recommend renting a car, but there are shuttles availlable for ~$50 per person if you'd rather. Summit Express is one vendor we've heard people use in the past.
The dress code is formal / black tie optional. For men, either a tux or suit is perfectly acceptable. Women, do your thing :)
Yes, there is free parking at Center Village where you will take the gondula up to the venue and reception space.
We love your little ones, but this will be an adult-only celebration.
TBC - we are looking into transportation options.