FAQs

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When Should I RSVP By?

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Please RSVP by April 1st, 2026

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Is there a dress code for the wedding?

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Yes! The celebration will be Black Tie, tuxedos and floor-length gowns are encouraged. Both the ceremony and reception will take place outdoors on the grass, so we kindly suggest keeping this in mind when selecting your footwear

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30pm. Please plan to arrive around 4pm - 4:15pm to ensure you have plenty of time

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Are kids welcome

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We love your little ones; however, this is an adults-only event. Enjoy the night off and come ready to party!

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What color are the bridesmaids wearing

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All of the beautiful bridesmaids will be wearing sea moss green and soft blue

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Will there be transportation

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For guests not staying on-site, we will have a shuttle service with pick-up locations at several nearby hotels listed on the Travel page; however, we encourage guests to stay at the Pridwin!

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How do I arrive on Shelter Island

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There are two ferries, one from one from Greenport on the North Fork and one from Sag Harbor on the south shore of Long Island. We suggest utilizing the North ferry from Greenport to avoid traffic during the U.S. open golf. Please note the last ferry from Shelter Island to Greenport is at 11:45pm