The first time I actually saw this yellow man was during singles week when he anchored a program on stage in church. At the program, he actually spoke in both English and Yoruba and it was really funny tho (my guy is a comedian) but I never saw him again after that. All of a sudden in Jan 2017, my sister (Abiola) mentioned to me that one yellow guy in Choir at church had asked her friend to get my number for him.In my mind I was like “why can't the guy walk up to me personally”.Anyways,I started running away from him in church (lool) and decided to make it hard for him to get my number (am not that mean tho).Eventually, one day after an evening service,as I was leaving the technical office in the gallery at church,I saw one yellow man corner me and say - Hi my name is Tolu. In my mind I’m like shit, he caught me this time. We chatted a bit and he finally got the number he wanted..lol. We were in constant communication for like 2 weeks but I had mentioned I had a boyfriend at that time. The funny thing is after 2 weeks of conversation, Tee decided to stop talking to me since I was actually in a serious relationship and he didn’t want to cause any issues (such a sensible man). We stopped talking and I started avoiding him so much in church (can't even remember why). Sometime in July, I started hearing in my Spirit that Tolu is your husband and then I was telling the Holy Spirit that hollup, which Tolu..lol. In my head I’m thinking I can’t marry that yellow guy in choir ooo. I always said I never wanted to marry any guy from my church, so that was not the deal. Also, I was still in a relationship at the time. Although my ex & I were having serious issues, I was still trying to patch up the relationship.During this period, I would see Tee singing in the choir on the screen and I will get that notion again, and I also started seeing him in my dreams regularly. But my coconut head was still trying to make the relationship with my ex work.

I decided to speak to my mum about what was going on in my head and mind for months, and we agreed to pray together about it. Her prayers gave me confirmation and at that point, I yielded because I figured it would be foolishness to ignore what God is saying. By December 2017, I decided to reach out to Tee via whatsapp. I asked him why I had been seeing him in my dreams, and the next thing he asked me is “Are you still in that relationship?” As the sharp guy that Tolu is, once I said I was no longer in a relationship, he called me immediately and we spoke for about 2hrs ( hmmn I was at work on this day oo), weeks after that we went on our first date. From our first date, we started talking every day and on Jan 17, we started dating after Tolu officially asked me to be in a relationship with him. I didn’t know him much then but I trusted God and I’m eternally grateful I did because Tolu is my special gift from heaven. Tolu and I physically dated for 6months before I travelled, so a large part of our relationship has been long distance but it has been amazing because God is fully involved.This even contributed to deciding our hashtag IseOluwani, which means “It is God's work”. From the period when we started dating till now, it has honestly been God and I’m more than excited to start this life journey with my yellow sugar daddy. I love you forever my one and only T-baby………..Let’s do this!!!

Well, it's just like yesterday when I saw this beautiful damsel descend the stairway from the gallery in Church. I didn't know who she was, her name or where she stayed. At that point I heard it clearly ‘That is your wife’ I had never been more sure of anything in my life. That was why when I was finally able to talk to her and she told me she was seeing someone then..I knew it wasn't the ‘real thing’. We basically met in church but the rest of the matter happened more out of church. Things got really serious during her trip to Dubai for mummy’s birthday; We spoke literally everyday..over the phone and on whatsapp. We grew closer and closer by the day. It was already obvious something was brewing. Upon her return I just couldn't get myself to stop, this my sweets was living rent-free in my head (in a good way). About mid January I officially asked her out and it was a resounding Yes! (You should have seen me under that tree that evening..the Suya also did the trick..lol) Our dating journey has largely been long-distance ‘cos she had to move to Canada for her MSc, we were determined and personally i was committed to making it work against all odds and people’s predictions. The Holy Spirit was deeply involved and I am grateful to God for this. Before we started dating or we even met, regarding marriage and a life partner, my prayers have always been God’s will 100%. I had no idol whatsoever in my heart, she still claims the Holy Spirit did the ‘chiking’ for me..whatever! I say she is my reward, my rest, one I am eternally grateful for. Prayers and faith coupled with the hope of what to come held us firmly together we just knew we were meant for each other in the way we balance ourselves. It's been a remarkable journey so far and I am excited for the one that lies ahead because it is beautiful. It couldn't have been anyone else...It had to be you..I'm glad it is you.