April 13, 2013 — Carolina Ale House, Downtown Greenville It all started at Carolina Ale House. Jay Jay wasn’t even supposed to be there — he’d gotten off work early because he wasn’t feeling well and told his friend to take him home. But that friend had other plans and dragged him to the bar… Jay Jay, who hadn’t been feeling his best, almost immediately perked up when he saw what he still describes as “a sexy lil chocolate thang” serving drinks — and that woman was none other than Andrena. Before he left, he patiently waited for her to come out from the back just to ask for her number. Drena told him she normally didn’t give her number out at work, but there was just something about him — and if you ask her, she’ll say it was because he was so cute and just a little under her height, yet carried himself like he was 6’9” (and she’s only 5’4”). So instead, she agreed to take his number. It took her a few days to actually call (she had to keep him wondering a little), but once they started talking, the connection was instant. Jay Jay made such a lasting impression that Drena even saved the date in her Google Calendar — April 13, 2013 — simply labeled “Met Jay Jay.” She had no idea that years later, she’d look back at that date smiling, realizing it was the beginning of an unforgettable love story, her love story. For the first few years, life took them in different directions. They were off and on, both in between relationships, but they always found their way back to hanging out together with their 3 youngest kids — laughing, parenting, and just trying to make it through the chaos of everyday life. Marriage wasn’t even on the radar; they were just keeping the kids fed, staying sane, and making it to work on time. Who knew those simple moments would one day lead them right back to each other? Three years ago, life came full circle and brought Jay Jay and Drena back together—right when they both needed it most. They were each facing their own storms, and somehow, that reconnection became the calm. What started as two friends catching up turned into peace, laughter, and love that felt like home. Now, their story isn’t just about them — it’s about their big, beautiful, blended family that keeps life loud, funny, and full of love. Every bit of chaos and calm helped build the life they’re creating together. On April 11, 2026, they’ll finally make it official — surrounded by the people who’ve cheered them on every step of the way. Those who know them best agree: their laughter, their love, and the way they balance each other just works. From never to I do❤️