FAQs
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Can I bring a plus one?
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The answer will probably always be yes but please reach out to Elise and/or Matt to let us know so that we can also get their name and meal choice.
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When can we sit for the ceremony?
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Seating for the ceremony will begin at 3:30pm on Saturday.
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Will there be an after party?
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There will not be a formal after party but we will be going to Bayzo's (the pub next to the ballroom) which will be open to 1 a.m.!
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Are phones allowed during the ceremony?
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We humbly request that there are no cell phones out during the ceremony. We worked very hard to find a really wonderful photographer and we ask that you let her get the most high quality photos without your phones in the shots.
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What is the weather usually like on the cape this time of year?
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October is beautiful on Cape Cod, usually warm sunshine during the day and slightly chilly in the evening so you may want to prepare layers to change with the temperature throughout the day.
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What footwear would be best?
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The ceremony is on the front lawn on the mansion so we highly recommend that if you are wearing heels that they are thick/chunky heels so that they do not sink into the grass when you are walking. If you are wearing thinner heels, we highly recommend looking at "high heel stoppers/protectors" on amazon.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal meaning gowns and tuxes are fine and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
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Where will the events of the day take place?
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The ceremony is outside on the front lawn, the cocktail hour is upstairs on the outdoor terrace and the reception is inside the ballroom.
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What is parking like? Is it free?
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Parking is free and will be to the left of the mansion only a short walk to the ceremony site. It is a one way road on the property so you won't be able to miss it!
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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP or can I do it online?
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The RSVP deadline is September 1st, 2022 to give us enough time to let the venue know a final guest count. You can return the pre-addressed and stamped RSVP card in the mail or RSVP right here on our website under the RSVP tab!
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Where are you registered?
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We are registered right here on Zola! You can access our registry under the "registry" tab on the top of the page.
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May I take a centerpiece/bottle/flowers home as a souvenir?
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YES PLEASE! you can take one bottle or a few, whatever you would like! We do not have a system for who gets what so please help yourself. We worked hard to make the centerpieces nice so we want you to enjoy them too!
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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?
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Absolutely! We love to see the special moments of that day