Hotel
This is a boutique hotel is right around the corner from the wedding/reception.
Hotel
This hotel is also right around the corner from the wedding/reception spot on Nob Hill.
Flight
You can fly into either Oakland or San Fran airport, these airports are equal distance from wedding venue. Public transportation is available from both airports to get to the venue.
Train
You can use B.A.R.T (the subway system ) and the the Muni system (includes bus, trolley cable cars and historic street cars), to get all over the city fairly easily.