Wedding Party
Dr. Yasmeen Alayli
Maid of Honor
Yasmeen is a Trinity alumna which is where she and Frances first met. They were both members of the McNair Scholars program where they quickly bonded over being overworked and under-rested STEM majors. They shared more of each other's lives and grew closer while sharing stories from their less than conventional childhoods. Yasmeen was even present the evening that Frances received the tragic news that her father had unexpectedly passed. Ever since, Yasmeen has been a grounding presence. Available for the deepest of conversations or silent commiseration, she became an essential friend. Frances and Yasmeen grew even closer during the pandemic, where they would regularly video call and chat about the state of the world, all while Yasmeen was on the frontlines working in a hospital as a medical student. Throughout her own stresses and struggles over the years, Yasmeen has remained a fervent supporter of Frances. She can't imagine not having her a part of this day. Dr. Alayli is currently a pediatrics resident at the University of Washington in Seattle.
Alexandra Stone
Bridesmaid
The younger, yet taller, other half of the Stone sisters. Frances and Alex are 3.5 years apart in age, and even farther apart in inherited traits. Alex got her mother's rich brown eyes and darker hair. Frances got all of her father's recessive traits, the blue eyes and the blonde hair. And though you may not pick them out as siblings in a lineup right away, you'd be able to tell if you heard them interacting with each other. With long-running jokes and memories of things they did to entertain themselves as girls, these sisters share a deep bond and storied history. Though defined by the 'older' or 'younger' sibling role as children, that distinction has come to matter less in adulthood as they reacquaint as peers. It hasn't been the easiest path to the present moment for these two, but they've always had each other. It's only sensible that she be by Frances' side for this joyous and momentous occasion. Alex currently works in resort hospitality, a job that's allowed her to see many interesting places.
Emily Beach
Bridesmaid
Frances and Emily first met in the 3rd grade when Emily moved to Central Texas from Virginia. Emily, Frances, and Annie were the only three girls in the advanced 'GT' mathematics class. The trio quickly became inseparable, navigating the ups and downs of girlhood marked by grade school experiences and the occasional sleepover. Emily's home had the best pool of the friend group, and the girls could be found jumping off rocks into the cool water during many hot TX days. As teenagers, Emily and Frances bonded over being sassy, 'edgy', gals. They often sat together in shared classes, and were known for their wit and close bond. In college, they hosted each other in cramped dorms, just to have yet another sleepover and hangout. Emily has always shown herself to be a wicked smart and an endlessly supportive friend to Frances. From her company in the prom party who stopped by Frances' mother's nursing home, to being by Frances' side after her father passed, to helping Jordan coordinate his proposal: Emily has been at every major life milestone of Frances and it's obvious she be at this one too; it's been a lifetime in the making. Emily is currently working at a SaaS company in Austin, TX.
Annie Watts
Bridesmaid
As the other part of the famous 'GT' girls trio, Annie and Frances have known each other since 2nd grade. Frances and Annie bonded over being imaginative and nerdy spirits, who could often be found playing creative versions of pretend, bonding over Pokemon, or tearing up some co-op Wii games. When not having sleepovers at Frances' grandmother's house, the girls were often playing in the beautiful woods behind Annie's home, bouncing on the trampoline, or foraging for whatever was around. Annie has always been an outdoorsy type, and often was the catalyst for Frances to join her on camping trips or summer camps. The Watts family quickly got used to Frances' presence, jokingly referring to her as an extra member of the family. With the Watts family, Frances has shared countless meals, holidays, and even a cruise. When Frances' father passed, Annie's parents generously flew her back to TX from her Utah based university to be there for her friend. Annie and her family surrounded Frances with love and provided true familial support during that time. Annie is a skilled seamstress and cosplayer, having won several competitions for her handiwork in making costumes. Frances accompanied Annie to several competitions early in her career to help manage the many moving pieces of elaborate costumes. To this day, you can still occasionally find Annie and Frances playing Pokemon Rumble on the old Nintendo Wii together. Annie is currently a Pediatric Occupational Therapist in San Antonio, TX
Katherine Pyles
Bridesmaid
Katherine and Frances were first-year suitemates at Trinity University. They quickly bonded throughout the endless dorm and hall specific welcome activities of their first semester. Frances was immediately struck by how open, candid, and funny Katherine was. After their first year, they no longer lived together, but still always found time to catch up. Frances always admired Katherine for her progressive outspoken nature, as well as her prioritizing her well being as much as a college student can. Their friendship continued to blossom post-Trinity, where the girls would often hang out at one another's place in San Antonio. Katherine went into a UTSA Social Work graduate program where her Trinity background and prior volunteer experience helped her shine. During this time, Frances gained even more respect for Katherine as she provided hands on support to her community through her studies and eventually her work. They still met up for their regular hangouts, and Frances hoped she could be a brief distraction from the troubles of the world that Katherine had devoted herself to. Even half a country away, they still find time to chat, and always have time to send each other funny things. Katherine has been an incredibly genuine and supportive friend since they first met as teenagers at Trinity. Frances is so excited to have her as a bridesmaid. Katherine is currently a Social Worker in San Antonio, TX.
Catherine Worley
Bridesmaid
Frances and Catherine were introduced at Trinity University where they went on to be sophomore year suitemates. They first met at an astronomical event viewing on the roof of the campus science building one evening. Frances was struck by how cool, knowledgeable, and sure of herself Catherine seemed. They bonded over complaining about their STEM majors and their shared love of cats. Catherine was a member of the on campus Cat Alliance and would help feed the cats around the school, as well as fostering one briefly in the girls' shared suite. Catherine was vegan even in college which meant many DIY dorm meals, the wafting smells of which would often bring Frances over for conversation. As members of Hope Hall, they would occasionally be assigned to the same weekly charitable activity and would carpool or enjoy each other's company completing whatever tasks were needed. They remained friends throughout their time at Trinity. Frances and Catherine occasionally kept up via video calls during the pandemic, but their friendship has truly reignited recently as they are both now local to the Bay Area. They enjoy the occasional picnic or vegan meal together and love to chat about life. Frances is incredibly grateful that Catherine has come back into her life and is so excited to have her accompany her for this momentous occasion. Catherine currently works for a native plant nursery in Richmond, CA.
Amulya Deva-Loder
Bridesmaid
Amulya and Frances met at Trinity University, where they were both overinvolved in extracurriculars, occasionally even the same ones. Amulya was famously their Trinity class president, leading the show effortlessly when Frances was involved in student government. Frances and Amulya further bonded through dance and were in several performances together throughout the years, primarily in the annual on-campus dance showcase. Their friendship grew towards the end of their time at college as they spent more time together. Keeping in touch over the pandemic, Amulya and Andrew always made efforts to see Frances and Jordan when they were visiting San Antonio. When Jordan began working for Google with Andrew's recommendation, the group became even closer, catching up while Andrew and Amulya planned their wedding. Amulya kindly extended an invitation for Frances to join her on her bachelorette trip to NYC, a trip that ended up being hugely beneficial for Frances as her first vacation since the pandemic had begun. Later that summer, Amulya and Andrew graciously hosted them in the Bay Area last minute for an eye opening trip that proved to Frances and Jordan that they were ready to experience life outside of their home state of Texas. Amulya's wedding festivities indirectly changed the entire course of Frances and Jordan's life for the better, it's extremely fitting that she play a role in theirs. Amulya currently works in Beauty Product Development in Santa Clara, CA.
Jordan Grealish
Bridesmaid
Though a more recent friend of Frances, Jordan has already left an unforgettable impression. Jordan was an essential part of the Bay Area community that provided a soft landing for Frances and Jordan Koeller after their move, even hosting their welcome party at her home. Their bond swiftly grew over their shared affinities for cats, witchy things, and good air conditioning (they are TX girls after all). Jordan, Amulya, and Frances continued to bond over their love for hosting events and all the prep work that goes into it. You can often find them together in the evening before a scheduled party hanging up decorations or even making them on a Cricut machine. Jordan and Frances particularly enjoy taking evening walks whenever together to observe the world around them. Though newer additions to each others lives, Jordan and Frances have so much in common and each has proven to be a reliable friend to the other even in such a short time. Jordan has such an eye for details, decor, and all things aesthetics. Her support, wit, and keen eye will be crucial to Frances throughout the wedding festivities. And if all else fails they can always take an evening stroll. Frances is honored to have her as a part of this big day. Jordan worked in Historical Preservation in Los Gatos, CA.
Marshall Tickner
Best Man
Marshall and Jordan first met at rehearsal for Daphnis et Cloe - a show performed by Trinity University's Chamber Singers and Symphony. Jordan was in the choir, and Marshall played trombone. They quickly learned they were both physics majors and then often saw each other lurking late at night in the Physics department, trying to complete their physics homework. As Jordan and Frances started dating, the three of them became quite a trio in the physics department. Taking classes together, working together in Dr. Pooley's astrophysics research group, and continuing to lurk late at night in the physics department, trying to complete their homework. As their time at Trinity continued, the trio became inseparable, and could often be found playing video games or Dungeons and Dragons at each others' apartment. As their time at Trinity came to a close, they continued to play games together and stay in touch, though often virtually with the pandemic and since Jordan and Frances moved to California. Marshall currently lives in San Antonio, with his husband Dimitri, and works in industrial automation.
Jason Koeller
Groomsman
The older of the two Koeller brothers. Jason is 4.5 years older than Jordan, though you wouldn't necessarily know by looking at them. Much of their childhood was defined by typical brothers' shenanigans - getting into trouble flipping the go-kart, playing basketball in the driveway, or competing to do the coolest trick jumping off the rope-swing into Sandalwood Lake. Being the older brother, Jason would often have to bail Jordan out of whatever trouble they found themselves in, though Jordan did once get to bail Jason out by running to tell their parents after he broke his leg playing pinball in a restaurant game room. When Jason graduated high school and moved to Colorado for college, the brothers' shenanigans (mostly) came to an end, but has since been replaced with a great relationship between two adult brothers. Jason currently lives in San Mateo working for the battery startup Chemix.ai, where Jordan also works part-time.
Monty McKeon
Groomsman
Monty and Frances first met during the Summer Bridge Program at Trinity University. Forming an instant connection, they bonded over the massive change of moving into college early as first-years. They often hung out during volunteering activities or in whoever's dorm room who was playing host. Their social circles expanded greatly while at Trinity, but Frances and Monty still frequently found time to catch up. Monty remained in San Antonio after graduating and Jordan, Frances, and Monty would occasionally meet up for dinner and margaritas. The group grew closer during the pandemic as Monty and Frances spoke daily and he would occasionally visit as a part of their bubble. Monty was the first person the couple hosted after moving to San Jose, where he gave the still adjusting duo a much needed push to explore their new surroundings. It's hard to believe that by the time of the wedding, Monty and Frances will have been friends for 10 years. Throughout ups and downs of navigating their young lives, they've always been there for each other as a supportive and light-hearted respite from the world. Frances went from a teenager joking with Monty that she'd be single forever to having him be a groomsman for her soon to be husband.
Benjamin Warren
Groomsman
Easily identified by his flowing blonde hair, Ben Warren has been a longtime family friend of Frances. Ben's father, George, coached their childhood soccer team, and a lifelong connection bloomed thereafter. George also had a tradition of taking a large group of nerds to watch primarily Marvel movies at the well known beloved TX theater chain, Alamo Drafthouse. It was these many instances where Ben, Frances, and Garrett remained in each other's lives even as they grew up and geographically apart. Ben seamlessly became part of a group of friends from Frances' high school, a school he didn't even attend. This group of friends would frequently meet up when the college students were home on school breaks. It was on one of these breaks that Jordan eventually met Ben. They bonded over an interest in math / physics, similar interests in video games, and having entirely too long hair (though Jordan has since left those days behind). Ben is currently finishing up his Ph.D in Mathematics, set to graduate in May 2025. After graduation he plans to move to Eugene, Oregon.
Garrett Schaller
Groomsman
Another one of Frances' home-town friends, Garrett is a cornerstone of the Georgetown friend group. Frances, Annie, Emily, Dominic and Ben could often be found at the Schaller's house playing board games or Super Smash Bros. well into the night. Since Frances and Jordan became a couple, Jordan has had the privilege of joining the friend group and sharing in that revelry at the Schaller's house - playing games well into the night. Outside of those nights, Jordan and Garrett can be found playing video games together, talking about their favorite TV shows, or otherwise chatting about nothing in particular (though usually somewhere in the orbit of something very nerdy). Garrett also played a key role in Jordan's proposal to Frances, helping set up the surprise, running last minute errands, and generally helping everything go smoothly. Garrett currently lives in Colorado Springs, Colorado, working in healthcare supply chain.
Dominic Young
Groomsman
A long time family friend of Frances, Dominic and Frances attend the same church as children, and pretty much always attended the same school through high school. Dominic has always brought the sense of humor to their high school circle of friends' gatherings. During the pandemic, Jordan and Dominic would spend multiple hours a week coding together, helping Dominic pivot his career. Jordan did this partly to help a friend, but mostly as an excuse to talk with Dominic more and so they could chat and then put the code away and switch to play video games together as the pandemic dragged along. Jordan looks up to Dominic, and has tremendous respect for how he cares for his family and those he loves. Dominic lives in Round Rock, TX, studying computer science with an interest in game development.
Andrew Loder
Groomsman
Andrew and Jordan first got to know each other at Trinity University in their senior year competitive programming class. After graduating, Andrew moved to California with his wife and one of Frances' Bridesmaids Amulya Deva-Loder to start working for Google, while Frances and Jordan stayed in San Antonio. They remained in touch virtually through the pandemic, but really came back into each other's lives as Jordan became interested in working for Google in early 2022. Andrew offered to help Jordan with his application, ultimately leading to Jordan's hiring. When Andrew and Amulya were having their own wedding, the four of them started talking more, and they hosted Frances and Jordan for a surprise visit in California for the 4th of July after Jordan and Frances' original flights got cancelled. This trip would end up changing Frances and Jordan's lives, as they fell in love with California, and felt immediately welcomed to the Bay by Andrew, Amulya, the Grealishes, and an entire community of new friends at their 4th of July party. Two months later, Frances and Jordan moved to San Jose where Andrew and Jordan's friendship has continued to grow and Andrew has proven himself to be earnest, welcoming, and an excellent cat-sitter. He's the kind of guy you just want to get a beer with (something Jordan and Andrew have been known to do on many an occasion). Andrew is currently a Googler with Jordan and Charlie, and a crucial part of their Bay Area community.
Charles Grealish
Groomsman
Charlie and Jordan first met at Andrew's Bachelor party in Manhattan, where they became immediate buds, discovering they were both computer science boys working for Google, originally from Houston. After Frances and Jordan moved to San Jose they would see Charlie and his wife Jordan on double-dates, triple-dates with the Deva-Loders, and the extending friend group at frequent get-togethers. At these get-togethers, Charlie, Andrew, and Jordan would often sneak off to talk about nerd things like working at Google, video games they all play, and obscure corners of math, to name a few topics. As Frances and Jordan have settled into their life in San Jose, you can often see them ruckus-causing with the Grealishes. Charlie is currently a Googler, also living in San Jose, CA.