FAQs

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Are children invited?

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Sadly we do not have room to accommodate children at the ceremony, dinner or evening reception. Babies and infants are welcome but please let one of us know.

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Should I come to the Friday Welcome Event?

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This is truly an optional get-together for anyone staying nearby on the Friday evening. The vibe will be casual and presents an opportunity to say hello before our big day.

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What is the dress code for Saturday?

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Whilst the dress code is "cocktail", we'd also love for you to embrace the summer setting and wear light, airy colors and fabrics. Please refrain from wearing black. We do not recommend stilettos because of the grounds and grass.

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What meals are being served?

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We will have canapes in the garden before sitting down for dinner at around 5pm. Later in the evening there will be cake, cheese and biscuits but not another meal. With this in mind we would really encourage everyone to eat lunch before arriving. There are some pubs in the area which would be great options. The Kings Head (Horley), The Farmhouse (Horley), The Curious Pig in the Parlour (Crawley) and The Old House Inn (Copthorne).

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What time does the celebration end?

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The event ends at midnight but we will be wrapping up from around 11.30pm.

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Is there parking?

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Yes, there is a parking area on-site.

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Can I take photos?

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We would like to enjoy an unplugged (no-phones) ceremony, however after that please feel free to take as many pictures as you like! We will provide somewhere to upload all photos after the event.

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What about gifts?

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The greatest gift that you can give us is to be with us in person on our special day - particularly as we know that so many of you are travelling so far. However, we know that many of you have asked about gifts already, so if you would really like to give us something we would most appreciate a modest contribution towards funding the purchase of a home. You can access a link to contribute via the 'Registry' tab (see main menu above), and there will be a card box available on the day.

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Is anything happening after the wedding?

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Nothing has been planned for the Sunday as we are anticipating the need for a quiet day! But we will see how everyone is feeling. Some of you are joining us for the following week on the Greek island of Lefkada. If anyone else would like to join us please get in touch.

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Planning to stay in the UK before or after the celebration?

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Frances' parents would be delighted to offer suggestions of things to do or places to visit including around their home in Salisbury (near Stonehenge!). Do not hesistate to email John at john@thecarneys.co.uk.

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And

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We are very excited to celebrate with all our favourite people in such a beautiful place.