The sooner the better! We know that you've got a lot of choices when it comes to weddings this year, and we're happy you've chosen ours.
Kids! We love kids! But also, you hung out with your kids a lot last year. Grab a sitter, and come hang out with us. We'd prefer to keep this an adults-only party.
Indeed! If drinking during quarantine has turned you off booze forever and you don't plan to avail yourself at the bar, by all means - drive yourself (or carpool! Carpooling is fun!)
Between 3 and 4: the ceremony will start at 4:00, but come and hang out. Be outside. Say hi to people you haven't seen in a year. Make new friends.