FAQs

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by 08/17/2026

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What are the addresses of the wedding ceremony and reception venues? Are they wheelchair accessible?

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Ceremony is at Peculiar United Methodist Church. The reception is at the Henry Residence at 14811 E. 215th St. Peculiar, MO 64078. Both locations are wheelchair accessible, there are a few lips to get over at the Henry Residence.

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What's the easiest way to get to and from your wedding venue(s)?

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You will be providing your own transportation to the ceremony and reception. Because this will be at a house, if there is no where to park, we've asked our neighbors to lend us their yards. There will be signage so there is no confusion on where to park. If needed, we will have some type of transport to take you from our neighbors home to ours!

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Is there parking available near your wedding venue(s)?

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Yes, there will be a parking lot right outside the church!

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony will be indoors and the reception will be outdoors. If there is inclement weather we plan on having both ceremony and reception indoors at the church.

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Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer me to wear?

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To be respectful, we ask everyone to kindly not wear white :)

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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?

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We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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Yes, this is a kid friendly wedding. We understand that most of our cousins have at least one child and we want everyone to celebrate with us!

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Could you give me a link to your wedding registry?

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You can find our complete wedding registry here on our website (and purchase directly from our wish list) under the "Registry" tab.

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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

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If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 14811 E. 215th St. Peculiar, MO 64078. A wedding card box and gift table will be at our reception.

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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The doors to the venue will open one hour ahead of our ceremony time at 3:30. We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue at least 30 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time to ensure you have enough time to walk to the ceremony space and find a seat.

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What time will your wedding reception end? Is there an after-party?

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Our reception will end around 10pm and there will be no after-party.

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Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?

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A 45-minute cocktail hour will take place at the Henry Residence where you can enjoy cocktails, mocktails, small bites and lawn games.

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Could you suggest places to eat, drink and see while I'm in town for your wedding?

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Check out the "Things to Do" section of our travel page to see some of our favorite spots to eat, drink and explore in our city.

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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We kindly ask that you keep our wedding "unplugged" and refrain from taking any photos or videos at our wedding. We want our guests to truly be in the moment with us during this special day.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Yes! Our wedding hashtag is #TheFoulkes. It'll also be posted around the venue for your convenience.