Flight
The closest major airport to Ocean City is Philadelphia International Airport which is about 70 minutes away. The next closest major airport is Newark Airport which is about 2 hours away. Atlantic City has a small regional airport which is about 30 minutes away. You will need a car to get to Ocean City from any of these airports. If you need assistance getting from the airport to Ocean City, let us know and we can see if we can arrange carpooling as there will be several people flying in.
Hotel
Be sure to call the hotel to book your room and tell them you are there for the Pachella/Flores wedding and you will receive a 10% discount. The phone number is 609-399-1000 Exit 30 on the Parkway! The hotel has free parking! All rooms at the Flanders are little apartment suites. If you are coming with a group, you can share accommodations and everyone can potentially get their own bedroom depending on the suite you get. Rates are off-peak for November so no summer rates here! Aside from the Flanders, you could probably find AirBnBs in the area or stay in a hotel in Atlantic City which is about 20 minutes away. The reception is at the Flanders so that is the easiest option for accommodations so you don't have to worry about driving.
Hotel
If the Flanders does not have any more rooms for you, this hotel is within walking distance and we were able to reserve a room block there as well. Rates are similar to the Flanders. Call the hotel at 609-398-4300 and mention the Pachella/Flores wedding for $10 off a one night stay or $20 off a two night stay. If you are staying Friday - Sunday, they will give you free 6pm check-out on Sunday so no need to rush out.