While we understand that many of you have families, we ask that this event be primarily be for adults and older children (13+). With that being said, if you need to bring smaller children please contact Jason or Lea.
Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block.
Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary drinks throughout the event.
The dress code is semi-formal. No jeans, no shorts, etc. We suggest cocktail dresses for women and suits (tie optional) for men. You may dress more formally if you feel the urge.
Yes (kind of)! Instead of ‘things’ we are just asking for donations to help with the wedding and honeymoon costs. You can find all the details on the Registry page of our website!
To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. If we know you are married we are already assuming your spouse will be attending with you. With that being said, you may contact Lea or Jason to see if a plus one can be accommodated. Just know we are hard capping this event and there may not be space. Thank you for understanding!
Yes! Please see the SCHEDULE page on our website for the list of events. Please check it frequently as events will be added with specifics for over the event weekend. The overall outline is as follows (subject to change): Friday 09/18/26: Informal Pre-Wedding Gathering Saturday 09/19/26: Rehearsal Brunch Sunday 09/20/26: Wedding at The Sterling Hotel Sunday 09/20/26: The After Party Updated: 02/26/2026
To RSVP, go to the RSVP page on this website. Read the instructions carefully. Please submit your RSVP no later than AUGUST 1st, 2026 so we can plan accordingly!
The ceremony will start at 4:00pm. Please arrive at least 15-30 minutes before the ceremony to get settled. If you are driving, please allow time to find parking.
Yes, we encourage you to take photos and share them on social media! Please use our wedding hashtag #FleTayDay so we can see all your wonderful pictures.
Rain or shine, the celebration continues! The majority of the day will be held indoors, so there will not be any worry about weather affecting the wedding day.
Yes, there will be parking available at the following: 900 13th Street Parking Garage 801 14th St, Sacramento, CA 95814 (Memorial Garage)