FAQs

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What Happens After 8:00 PM at Nectar

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After 8:00, Nectar will start switching over to a public event. All wedding guests are invited to stay, but will not get a stamp, so if you leave, you won't be able to come back in. The public event is called: WORK IT! 90s/2000s R&B and Hip Hop Throwback Party feat DJ Bop https://www.tixr.com/groups/nectarlounge/events/work-it-90s-2000s-r-b-and-hip-hop-throwback-party-feat-dj-bop-96844

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Is there a dress code?

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SEATTLE Cocktail Attire: Wear cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, and dark jackets and slacks. The concept of having a good time should be the guiding light of this dress code. Somewhere between casual and formal. NEW YORK Traditional Nigerian Dress or Black-tie optional: Feel free to wear traditional dress or the option of wearing your most formal attire but a formal suit or cocktail dress is just as fine! Please see Headwraps & Cap Order Form

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Hotel Information for Seattle

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If you are traveling and need to book a hotel in Seattle, we've reserved a hotel block and you can book here under Seattle Lodging

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Is there parking?

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For Seattle, there will be limited street parking, but we encourage people to use rideshare apps like Uber and Lyft.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love and adore all of the children in our life, we are only able to invite a couple immediate family members’ children. We apologize for the inconvenience it may cause, but we hope you understand. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need assistance finding childcare.

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Can I bring a date?

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Yes! Please make sure to indicate that when RSVPing.

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Where is the wedding taking place?

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Because our love spans from the West Coast to the East Coast, we've decided to celebrate both places. We will be getting married before both receptions, on 4/24/24 at the local courthouse in Seattle. Seattle's reception will take place at Nectar Lounge in Fremont New York's reception and ceremony will take place at North Amityville Fire Company

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What weather should I expect?

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- Seattle April Weather Averages - High: 60 °F Low: 44 °F Humidity: 69% - New York June Weather Averages - High: 81°F Low: 62°F Humidity: 65%

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Both receptions will be indoors. Seattle's venue has a covered patio with heaters.

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How do I RSVP?

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1. Click “RSVP” in the navigation menu at the top. 2. Enter your first and last name, and make sure you enter it the same way that it appears on your invitation - the name you enter must match how your name was entered in the guest list. If you're RSVPing for you and a guest, you'll be able to RSVP for the entire group by entering only your first and last name. 3. Click Will Attend or Will Not Attend next to each name on the RSVP. If the box is a darker color - it means you've selected it. Then click Next Event. If there is no next event, the form will say Submit RSVP instead.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Seattle: March 24, 2024 New York: May 29, 2024

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! There will be an open bar for beer and wine, so if you wish to participate in beverages other than that, please bring a credit card or cash.

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Are you registered? Where should we ship your gift?

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Yes we are! You can find items under the "Registry" tab in the navigation at the top of this page

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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?

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Yes! We'll also have a social media corner where you can share photos with everyone in attendance.