Whispers & WonderingsWhispers & Wonderings

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What's the food going to be like?What's the food going to be like?

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Caterer TBA - Check again when you receive your formal invitation! ♡

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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We’re taking great care with our menu to make sure everyone can relax and enjoy the celebration. Outside of pecans and walnuts used in the cake, we’re avoiding nuts throughout the event, and all food vendors have been informed of peanut and almond allergies. We will also have vegan options available. If you have any additional dietary concerns, please feel free to reach out—we’re happy to help!

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What should I wear?What should I wear?

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Our celebration is romantic, cozy, and just a little bit enchanted—so we kindly ask that guests dress in semi-formal or cocktail attire. Think dresses, jumpsuits, dressy separates, slacks with button-ups, or blazers. You can, but don’t need to be in black tie—but this isn’t backyard barbecue casual either! ✨ We also ask that only the bridal party wear colors tied directly to our wedding palette. If you’re not sure, no worries—just lean into soft neutrals, florals, rich jewel tones, or classic darks. We’d love for everyone to feel like their best, most magical selves without blending in with the wedding party 🕊️ Most importantly: dress in something you feel beautiful, confident, and comfortable enough to dance in. ⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯⎯ To help you avoid matching the wedding party, here’s a glimpse at our dreamy palette: Core Colors 💜 Lavender – #9D9DBE 💚 Sage – #B6C9A6 Accent Colors 🩵 Dusty Blue – #A1C9D0 🩷 Dusty Pink – #FDCECE 🩶 Metallic Silver - #C0C1C4 Want to see the shades? Just copy and paste the color codes into coolors.co to visualize them!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We have professional photographers and a videographer capturing the ceremony and reception. We’ll also have digital, no-screen cameras placed around for guests to use and capture candid moments throughout the day, after the ceremony, along with two extra special cameras to capture the day from unique perspectives! That being said, we kindly ask that guests refrain from using phones during the ceremony so we can all be fully present together. You’re welcome to resume phone use once the reception begins!

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Is there parking available?Is there parking available?

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There is plenty of parking available on-site! Just a heads-up: part of the road leading to the lot is a short dirt path—charming, rustic, and just a little bit dusty. If you’re wearing delicate shoes or driving a low carriage, take it slow and soak in the scenic arrival. And remember: long gowns and dirt paths make for enchanting photos, but tricky walking—gather your skirts like the royalty you are! 💫 How to get there: Your map application may direct you to the farmhouse instead of the parking area. Follow these instructions to get to the parking area: Once you see a cross and tractor with the M&M Farms sign, turn right. Follow the driveway around, and you will see an event parking sign. Turn left into the parking lot.

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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Yes! This celebration is for the whole kingdom. If your little ones were listed on your invitation, they are absolutely welcome to join in the magic. We can’t wait to see them dancing, laughing, and adding their own sparkle to the day. There is also a playground for children to play. That said, if your child won’t be attending after all, just let us know—so we can plan every detail down to the tiniest crown and crayon 💕

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I sent my RSVP in the mail, do I have to do it again online?I sent my RSVP in the mail, do I have to do it again online?

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No need to send a royal courier twice! Whether your response arrived by enchanted envelope or digital scroll, we’ll count it either way. That said, RSVPing online helps us keep things magically organized behind the scenes—so if you’re feeling extra helpful, the website is our favorite spellbook. ✨

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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If your heart is hoping to share this day with someone special, you’re welcome to bring a plus one—so long as they are mentioned to the bride, groom, or anyone in the wedding party in advance. Deadline 10.15.2026. Should your or your guest’s plans change and either or both of you can no longer attend, we kindly ask you to let us know no later than two weeks before the celebration, so we can keep every seat and plate in perfect harmony. Deadline 11.21.2026. Thank you for helping us keep the magic flowing smoothly ✨

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What are the venue specific rules?What are the venue specific rules?

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- No Pets - Smoking In Designated Areas Only (Fire Pit) - Children Are Not to Be Unattended **Zero Tolerance** - Being an outdoor venue, we do abide by the lee county noise ordinance which requires us to end our events by 10PM. Lee County Ordinance No. 14-18. The farm owner has the right to ask the DJ/musician to adjust the volume per Lee County’s decibel requirements - All Trash Must Be Picked Up from Grounds, Farmhouse, Groom Suite, Playgrounds, Pavilion, Bathrooms, etc. and Placed in Bags in Reception - M&M Farms Staff Will Dispose of Bagged Trash - All Spills Mopped, Wiped, Or Cleaned Up - All Cigarette Butts Picked Up - All Bottle Caps Picked Up - Sparkler Rods Picked Up - Grounds Must Be Left in the Same Condition as Originally Found