In April 2022, Mary blew the dust off her phone and reopened Hinge like entering a haunted house - reluctant and rightfully afraid. But this time, it was Anthony on the other side. He had actually read her profile and they got to talking about their favorite mutual interests: music, wine, travel, and reality TV. After discussing each other's recent and upcoming concerts, Anthony asked her on a first date. They met at Madison on Park for drinks. Anthony had just quit his job (very casual about it), but promised he had another lined up. That should have been a glaring red flag, but he had Mary charmed. They talked for hours, and it was the best date Mary had ever been on. Not to discredit Anthony, but Mary's prior Hinge dates had set the bar about as low as it goes. From the Madison on Park bathroom, Mary texted her girl friends that this guy was going to be a game changer for her. As usual, Mary was right. They've been pulling each other for chats and taking each other on dates ever since. With Anthony, Mary felt seen, heard, and - most shockingly - excited about dating again. Anthony felt understood, appreciated, and funnier than he deserved. Now, they spend their time watching reality TV, traveling, eating their way through San Diego’s restaurants, and visiting friends and family. They also find comfort in the joy of doing nothing together. Anthony proposed in Big Sur, at Nepenthe. Mary said yes before he even finished the question. <3