All I can say it was because of me yup I was so interested in getting to know him with determination and getting out of the shy zone I definitely made sure I got to know this man with no intentions of marriage or better yet any relationship it was an unknown situation day by day process but it turned out he was interested too that was definitely hard to believe after days of just messaging we finally started going old fashioned and talking on the phone getting to know each other more and more our relationship didn't take off quick we both had to make sure it was what we wanted considering I had a child and he had gone through plenty of heartbreak as well but from the moment we locked eyes it was a breathe of fresh air something felt right it was a feeling I have never felt before the feeling of feeling safe and comfortable that moment of hey this is fate this is where I belong after months of talking we decided we both felt the connection and immediately knew we weren't just going to be best friends we would end up being in love and as the days and months went on he came into my daughters life and she loved him during that moment I knew I wasn't going to let this man go he brought the happiness we both needed to complete our family so a year later he got down on one knee with the approval of my father and Bella he asked me to marry him with a few important people in our life before a Garth Brooks concert yup perfect!! Now two and a half years later we are ready to say I DO with our family and closest friends ❤️ Our story is short but with lots of memories, laughs, good times bad times I can always say I love our life now and I will continue love it for the rest of my life.